non verbal communication
One Everyday Therapy Activity for Non-Verbal Communication
Try the bubble pause game: blow bubbles, then pause and wait expectantly with a gesture until your child looks, points, or signals 'more' — then respond instantly. This playful daily back-and-forth builds eye contact, gestures, and joint attention, the foundations of non-verbal communication.
Sometimes the most powerful conversations with your child happen before a single word is spoken — in a look, a point, a shared smile.
In short
Try the "pause-and-wait" game with gestures: during a fun activity your child loves, pause expectantly and use a clear gesture — a point, a wave, an open hand — then wait for your child to respond or copy. Doing this a few times a day, in playful everyday moments, gently builds the eye contact, pointing, and turn-taking that all sit at the heart of non-verbal communication.One Everyday Therapy activity to try
The bubble pause game (works beautifully for ages 3–7):1. Blow a few bubbles so your child is delighted and engaged.
2. Then stop. Hold the bubble wand near your face, look at your child, and wait — count slowly to five in your head.
3. The moment your child looks at you, reaches, points, or makes any sound or gesture, respond instantly: "You want more! Here you go!" and blow again.
4. Over time, gently model a gesture — tap your chest, point to the bubbles, or do a "more" hand sign — and wait for them to try it back.
The magic is in the wait. By pausing, you create a little space your child wants to fill — and that is exactly where pointing, eye contact, and shared attention grow. You can swap bubbles for a wind-up toy, tickles, a ball roll, or peek-a-boo.
Why this works
Non-verbal communication — gestures, gaze, facial expression, joint attention — is the foundation that spoken language is built on (ICF domain d3, communication). Children learn it through repeated, joyful, back-and-forth exchanges. The pause invites initiation — your child reaching out to you — which research shows is more powerful for development than simply being prompted. Following your child's interest and rewarding every attempt keeps motivation high and learning natural.The Pinnacle way
A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — this everyday activity supports, but never replaces, that. Our speech therapy team weaves play like this into goals tailored to your child, and our guide to non-verbal communication has more home ideas.Trusted sources
Aligned with WHO ICF communication framework (d3), ASHA guidance on early social communication, and CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestones for gestures and joint attention.Next step — try the bubble pause game today, and to build a personalised plan with our speech therapists, reach us on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
Watch for small wins: your child looking to you, reaching, pointing, or copying a gesture to ask for 'more'. If by around 36 months you see very few gestures, little eye contact, or no pointing to share interest, mention it at a developmental check.
Try this at home
The secret ingredient is the wait — pause for a slow count of five and let your child fill the gap with a look, point, or gesture before you respond.
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Developed by SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network · Last reviewed 2026-06-10 · reviewed every 540 days
This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
How often should I play the bubble pause game?
A few short, happy bursts a day works far better than one long session — even three or four two-minute moments woven into play, bath time, or snack time will do. Stop while it is still fun so your child stays keen.
My child doesn't respond when I pause. Is that a problem?
Not at first — many children need several days of gentle repetition before they fill the pause. Keep modelling the gesture yourself and reward any attempt, even a glance or a sound. If you see very few gestures or little eye contact by around age 3, do mention it at a developmental check.
Can I use this if my child already says some words?
Absolutely. Non-verbal skills like gesture, gaze and turn-taking keep growing alongside speech and make spoken language richer, so this game helps children at every stage.