relating to people
When do children usually start relating to people?
Children build social skills gradually from 12 to 36 months: enjoying back-and-forth play and copying around age one, playing alongside others by two, and beginning to share and take turns by three. Ranges are wide; a screen helps if a toddler shows little interest in people or loses skills.
The first friendship a baby ever makes is with you — and from there, relating to people unfolds step by step across the toddler years.
In short
Most children build social skills — what the ICF calls relating to people (d7) — gradually between 12 and 36 months. Around the first birthday they enjoy back-and-forth play and copy your actions; by two they play alongside other children and show clear affection; by three they begin to take turns, share, and play with friends. There is a wide, healthy range, so think of these as a path, not a deadline.How relating to people grows
12–18 months — gives hugs, plays peek-a-boo and simple turn-taking games, brings you things to show, looks to your face to check how to feel about something new.18–24 months — copies older children and adults, plays happily near other toddlers (parallel play), shows pride and seeks praise, may have brief separation upset.
24–36 months — shows concern when someone cries, takes turns with help, starts simple pretend play with others, and by three increasingly enjoys cooperative play with friends.
Watch-and-monitor — and mention at your next visit — if a toddler rarely makes eye contact, doesn't respond to their name, shows little interest in other people, or loses social skills they once had. These are reasons for a friendly developmental check, not alarm.
The Pinnacle way
Every child relates in their own rhythm. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — a screen is simply a warm first step. Explore relating to people and our occupational therapy support to nurture social play.Trusted sources
Guided by WHO ICF (d7 social interactions), CDC developmental milestones, and AAP/HealthyChildren guidance on toddler social growth.Next step — if you're curious about your child's social development, book a gentle developmental screen with our team on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
Mention at your next visit if a toddler rarely makes eye contact, doesn't respond to their name, shows little interest in others, or loses social skills once gained — a friendly developmental check, not cause for alarm.
Try this at home
Sit on the floor at your toddler's level and play simple turn-taking games — roll a ball back and forth, or take turns stacking blocks. These tiny exchanges are the building blocks of relating to people.
Trusted sources
Developed by SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network · Last reviewed 2026-06-10 · reviewed every 540 days
This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
At what age do toddlers start playing with other children?
Most toddlers first play alongside other children (parallel play) around 18–24 months, and begin true cooperative play — sharing and taking turns — closer to age three. Both stages are normal social development.
My two-year-old prefers playing alone. Is that a problem?
Playing near rather than with other children is completely typical at two — it's called parallel play. Cooperative play usually grows after age three. Mention it at a routine check only if your child shows little interest in people generally or isn't responding to their name.
When should I have my toddler's social development checked?
Consider a friendly developmental screen if a toddler rarely makes eye contact, doesn't respond to their name, shows little interest in others, or loses skills they once had. Early checks are reassuring and never a diagnosis on their own.