nonverbal communication
Is It Normal My Toddler Isn't Yet Using Nonverbal Communication?
Nonverbal communication — pointing, waving, showing and sharing looks — usually appears across the toddler years, with pointing by about 12–15 months and several gestures by 18 months. If your toddler isn't using these yet, a developmental check is wise now, especially if a pattern of missing gestures shows alongside limited eye contact or name response. This is a reason to assess early, not a diagnosis.
If you're watching your toddler closely for the little gestures that say 'look at this!', that gentle attentiveness is exactly the right instinct.
In short
Nonverbal communication — pointing, waving, showing you things, shaking the head, reaching up to be lifted, sharing a look between a toy and your face — usually blossoms across the toddler years. Most children point to show interest by around 12–15 months and use several gestures by 18 months. If your child is not yet using these, it is worth a developmental check now — not because something is wrong, but because gestures are an early, powerful sign of communication, and early support works beautifully.What to watch (12–36 months)
Gestures often arrive before words and pave the way for them. Gentle flags worth a clinician's eye:- No pointing or showing by ~16–18 months — neither to ask for things nor to share something interesting.
- Little eye contact or shared looking between an object and your face.
- No waving, nodding, head-shaking or reaching up to be picked up by ~18 months.
- Not responding to their name or to your gestures (like waving bye-bye).
- Any loss of gestures or skills they clearly had before — this always deserves prompt review.
One missing skill is rarely a worry on its own; a pattern across several is the cue to have a friendly look together. Hearing should also be checked, since gestures and listening grow hand in hand.
The science
Nonverbal communication sits in the ICF communication domain (d3). Pointing and shared attention predict later spoken language, which is why clinicians value gestures so highly during screening. Noticing early simply opens the door to early, play-based help.The Pinnacle way
A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care — never from an online list. Our clinicians build your child's own baseline and shape support around strengths. Learn more about nonverbal communication, and if early gestures and words are the worry, our speech therapy team can begin gentle, playful support.Trusted sources
CDC developmental milestones and 'Learn the Signs, Act Early'; American Academy of Pediatrics guidance via healthychildren.org; WHO and the Nurturing Care framework on early childhood communication.Next step — Trust what you've noticed. Book a developmental assessment with a Pinnacle clinician for clarity and a kind, strengths-first plan.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
By ~16–18 months, seek a check if there is no pointing or showing, little eye contact or shared looking between an object and your face, no waving, nodding or reaching to be picked up, no response to their name — or any loss of gestures your child once had.
Try this at home
Build gestures into play: pause expectantly so your toddler can reach or point, model big waves at bye-bye, and clap and point at things together. Keep a short weekly note of any new gesture — it becomes a clear record to share with a clinician.
Trusted sources
Developed by SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network · Last reviewed 2026-06-10 · reviewed every 540 days
This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
At what age should my toddler start pointing?
Most children point to ask for things and to share interest by around 12–15 months, and use several gestures by 18 months. If pointing has not appeared by about 16–18 months, a gentle developmental check is sensible — it is a reason to look closely, not a diagnosis.
Do gestures matter if my child will talk anyway?
Yes. Gestures usually arrive before words and predict later spoken language, which is why clinicians value them during screening. Supporting gestures early often helps speech develop more smoothly.
My toddler makes little eye contact and few gestures — what should I do?
A pattern across several areas — limited gestures, little shared looking, and not responding to their name — is the cue to arrange a developmental check now. Early, play-based support works best, and a clinician can also check hearing.