Nightmares And Night Terrors
Nightmares and Night Terrors in a 6-Year-Old
Occasional nightmares and night terrors are common and usually harmless in a 6-year-old, and most children outgrow them. Nightmares are scary dreams a child wakes from and remembers; night terrors happen in deep sleep, where the child screams or thrashes while asleep and won't recall it. Seek a check only if episodes are very frequent, cause injury, involve breathing pauses, or come with daytime sleepiness or new worries.
A child crying out in the night can frighten any parent — yet at six, an occasional nightmare or night terror is usually a normal part of growing up.
In short
Nightmares and night terrors are common and usually harmless at six years old, and most children grow out of them without any treatment. Nightmares are scary dreams your child wakes from and often remembers; night terrors happen in deep sleep, where your child may sit up, scream or thrash while still asleep — and remember nothing in the morning. You should seek a check only if these episodes are very frequent, happen most nights, disrupt daytime functioning, involve repeated injury, or come alongside breathing pauses, daytime sleepiness or new worries — otherwise gentle reassurance and good sleep habits are all that's usually needed.Understanding the difference
Knowing which one you're seeing helps you respond calmly:- Nightmares — frightening dreams, usually in the second half of the night. Your child wakes fully, is upset, can be comforted, and often recalls the dream. Reassure, stay close, and settle them back gently.
- Night terrors — happen in the first few hours of sleep, in deep non-dreaming sleep. Your child may scream, sit up, sweat or look terrified with eyes open, yet is not truly awake. They settle on their own and won't remember it. Do not try to wake them — stay nearby, keep them safe, and let it pass.
Both are more common when a child is overtired, unwell, anxious or has an irregular bedtime. They tend to ease as your child grows and their sleep matures.
When to seek a check
Arrange a calm review if the episodes are happening most nights, are causing injury, involve snoring or pauses in breathing, leave your child very sleepy or unsettled by day, or appear with new daytime fears, big life changes or low mood. These aren't signs of anything wrong with your child — they simply mean a clinician's gentle look is wise, so the right support can be shaped early.The Pinnacle way
A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care — never from an online list. Our clinicians look at sleep patterns, daytime emotions and any worries your child may be carrying, and shape calm, practical support around your family's routine. You can also explore our child psychology and emotional support and start with a [developmental and emotional check](/) when you're ready.Trusted sources
American Academy of Pediatrics (healthychildren.org) guidance on nightmares, night terrors and healthy sleep for school-age children; CDC resources on children's sleep and routines.Next step — Trust what you've noticed. [Book a calm developmental and emotional check](/) with a Pinnacle clinician if night terrors or nightmares are frequent, frightening or disrupting your child's day.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
Most nightmares and night terrors at six are harmless and fade with time. Seek a check if episodes happen most nights, cause injury, involve snoring or pauses in breathing, leave your child very sleepy by day, or appear alongside new daytime fears, big changes or low mood.
Try this at home
Keep a wind-down routine — same bedtime, dim lights, no screens for an hour before sleep, and a calm bedtime chat. An overtired child has more night terrors, so guarding sleep time often helps the most.
Trusted sources
Developed by SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network · Last reviewed 2026-06-10
This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
What is the difference between a nightmare and a night terror?
A nightmare is a frightening dream your child wakes from, is upset by, and usually remembers. A night terror happens in deep sleep — your child may scream, sit up or thrash while still asleep, settles on their own, and remembers nothing in the morning.
Should I wake my child during a night terror?
No. During a night terror your child is not truly awake. Trying to wake them can prolong or worsen the episode. Stay nearby, keep them safe from harm, dim the lights, and let it pass — it usually ends within a few minutes.
When should I seek help for nightmares or night terrors?
Seek a gentle check if episodes happen most nights, cause injury, involve snoring or pauses in breathing, leave your child very sleepy by day, or come with new daytime fears, big life changes or low mood.
Will my child grow out of night terrors?
Most children do. Night terrors and frequent nightmares usually ease as sleep matures, especially with a steady bedtime routine and enough rest. If they persist or worry you, a clinician can review them calmly.