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Responding to a child who is not pointing to show things
A frontline worker should observe the child's wider social-communication picture, reassure the family without dismissing or labelling, coach simple shared-attention play at home, and route for a developmental check if a child of 18 months or older is not pointing to show interest. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.
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When a little one points to share a discovery — a bird, a balloon, a passing dog — they are telling you their world is opening up; when that pointing is slow to appear, your gentle observation matters.
In short
As a frontline worker, your role is to observe, reassure, encourage shared attention through play, and route the family for a developmental check — not to label or alarm. Pointing to show things (called declarative or joint-attention pointing) typically emerges around 12–15 months and is one of the most useful early social-communication signposts. If a child past 15–18 months is not yet pointing to share interest, note it calmly, share simple home strategies with the family, and refer for a developmental assessment so a qualified clinician can take a closer look.
What to do at the doorstep
- Watch the whole picture, not one behaviour. Does the child make eye contact, follow your gaze, bring or show toys, respond to their name, babble or use gestures like waving? Pointing is one strand among many — note several together.
- Reassure without dismissing. Tell the family that many children take their own time, and that noticing early is a strength, not a cause for fear.
- Coach simple shared-attention play. Encourage parents to point at and name interesting things during daily routines, pause and wait for the child to look, and respond warmly when the child shows or gives anything.
- Record and route. Make a brief note of age and what you observed, and arrange a developmental check at the nearest centre or PHC — gentle, prompt follow-up is the goal.
- Avoid the two traps: do not say "wait, it's nothing" and do not say "this means autism". Neither is your call — your job is to encourage assessment.
When to refer
Refer for a developmental check if a child is 18 months or older and not yet pointing to show or share interest, especially if combined with limited eye contact, not responding to name, few gestures, or little babble. Earlier referral is appropriate whenever a parent is worried — parental concern is itself a valid reason to assess.
The Pinnacle way
AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional — never from an app, a checklist or a doorstep observation. As a frontline worker you are the vital first link: your calm noticing and timely routing open the door. Families can begin with a developmental check and learn how a child's profile is built through the clinician-administered AbilityScore®, with early communication support guided by our speech therapy team across 70+ centres and 700+ therapists.
Trusted sources
WHO ICD-11 and early child-development guidance; CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestone resources on gestures and joint attention; American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) guidance on social-communication milestones.
Next step — Spotted a child who isn't pointing to share? Reassure the family and arrange a developmental assessment with a Pinnacle clinician.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.
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Something to notice. Something to discuss.
What to notice
Watch whether the child also makes eye contact, follows your gaze, responds to their name, waves or uses other gestures, and babbles — several of these together past 18 months matter more than pointing alone.
In everyday life
Coach parents to point at and name interesting things during daily routines, pause and wait for the child to look, and respond warmly whenever the child shows or hands over a toy.
Bring your observations and questions to your child’s professional. Choose activities that suit your child’s comfort, abilities and agreed plan.
Bring your questions to a first visitQuestions families ask
At what age should a child point to show things?
Pointing to share interest — declarative or joint-attention pointing — usually emerges around 12 to 15 months. If it has not appeared by 18 months, a developmental check is sensible, especially when a parent is concerned.
Does not pointing mean a child has autism?
No. Not pointing is one early social-communication signpost, not a diagnosis. Many children take their own time. A frontline worker's role is to observe the wider picture, reassure, and route for a qualified developmental assessment — never to label.
What can a frontline worker suggest parents do at home?
Encourage parents to point at and name interesting things during daily play, pause and wait for the child to look, follow the child's gaze, and respond warmly whenever the child shows or gives a toy.
When should a frontline worker refer for a check?
Refer when a child of 18 months or older is not yet pointing to share interest, particularly alongside limited eye contact, not responding to name, few gestures or little babble — or whenever a parent is worried.
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References behind this answer.
- Source referenceCDC — Learn the Signs. Act Early. (milestones & gestures)
- Organisation website · further readingAAP — HealthyChildren.org social-communication milestones
- Organisation website · further readingWHO ICD-11
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