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How to work on gestures with your child at home
Gestures like waving, pointing and reaching are early communication that comes before words. Build them at home by modelling the gesture, pausing, and making it useful — so your child gets something they want for trying. Use everyday routines, songs and choices, and celebrate every attempt. If gestures aren't appearing or have faded, seek a friendly developmental check.
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Long before words arrive, your little one is already "talking" — with a wave, a point, a reach-up to be held. Gestures are the bridge to speech, and you can build that bridge at home, today.
In short
Gestures — waving, pointing, showing, clapping, reaching up — are early communication, and they usually appear before first words. You can grow them at home through playful, repetitive everyday moments where you model the gesture, pause, and warmly reward your child's try. The trick is to make every gesture useful to your child, so it gets something they want.
Simple ways to build gestures at home
Model and pause
- Wave and say "bye-bye" every single time someone leaves — then wait and watch for a wave back.
- Point to things you name: "Look, a dog!" Point first, then check if your child follows your finger, then if they point too.
- Clap and cheer after small wins; clapping is one of the easiest gestures to copy.
Make gestures pay off
- Hold a favourite snack or toy slightly out of reach so your child reaches or points to ask — then give it straight away and name it: "You want the ball!"
- Offer a choice between two items held up in each hand, so reaching means choosing.
- When they lift their arms up, say "Up!" and pick them up — they learn the gesture gets a response.
Weave it into routines
- Use "all done" (hands out) at the end of meals, "more" (hands together) during snacks, and "shh" or "big" during favourite songs.
- Songs with actions — like clapping or open-shut-them rhymes — give lots of natural practice.
- Keep it short, joyful and repeated many times a day; children learn gestures from repetition, not pressure.
What helps it work
Get face-to-face at your child's eye level, follow what they are interested in, and leave a generous pause after you model — that silence is the invitation for them to try. Celebrate any approximation, even a clumsy one. If gestures aren't emerging or have faded, that's worth a friendly developmental check rather than a wait-and-see.
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Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional., under the care of a qualified clinician — home activities like these support development but never replace assessment. Our team supports families across 70+ centres in 4 states, drawing on 25 million+ therapy sessions. Explore more on gestures, see how structured speech therapy builds early communication, and learn how the AbilityScore® gives a clear developmental baseline.
Trusted sources
Guided by WHO and CDC milestone resources on early communication, the American Academy of Pediatrics' HealthyChildren guidance, and ASHA's parent resources on pre-verbal communication and gesture use.
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What to notice
Watch for any loss of gestures your child once used, or no waving, pointing or showing by around 12 months — these are worth a prompt developmental check rather than waiting.
In everyday life
Hold a favourite snack just out of reach and wait — when your child reaches or points to ask, give it straight away and name it. One useful gesture, many times a day.
Bring your observations and questions to your child’s professional. Choose activities that suit your child’s comfort, abilities and agreed plan.
Bring your questions to a first visitQuestions families ask
At what age do gestures usually appear?
Many children wave, reach up and clap in the second half of the first year, with pointing to show interest often emerging around 12 months. Gestures usually come before first words and pave the way for speech. Ranges vary, so focus on steady progress rather than exact dates.
My child says no words yet — should I still work on gestures?
Yes, very much so. Gestures are early communication and a strong foundation for talking, so building them is helpful whether or not words have arrived. Pairing each gesture with a clear word also supports later speech.
What if my child used gestures but seems to have stopped?
Any loss of skills your child once had — including gestures, babble or social engagement — is worth a prompt developmental check rather than waiting. Mention it to your clinician, and our team can also help you arrange an assessment.
How long should gesture practice take each day?
Keep it short and woven into daily life — meals, dressing, songs, goodbyes — rather than a set lesson. Many brief, joyful repetitions across the day work far better than one long session.
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References behind this answer.
- Source referenceCDC — developmental milestones including early communication
- Source referenceASHA — speech and language development for parents
- Organisation website · further readingAAP HealthyChildren — early communication guidance
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