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Building Eye Contact and Non-Verbal Communication at Home
Build eye contact and non-verbal communication at home through face-to-face play, following your child's interests, holding favourite toys near your eyes, and modelling gestures like pointing and waving — never by forcing your child to look. Short playful moments many times a day work best.
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Eye contact and gesture aren't about forcing your child to look at you — they're about making connection so rewarding that your child wants to look.
In short
You can build eye contact and non-verbal communication at home through everyday play, by getting face-to-face at your child's eye level, following their interests, and pairing your eyes with things they love. Never demand or hold a child's face to force looking — instead make your face the most interesting, joyful thing in the room. Small, playful moments many times a day work far better than long sessions.
Activities you can do today
Get into position
- Sit or lie down so you are face-to-face at your child's level — on the floor is perfect.
- Hold a favourite toy or snack up near your eyes, so looking at the toy means looking near your face. Wait, smile, then give it the moment your child glances up.
Use play that pulls eyes to faces
- Peek-a-boo, "so big!", tickle games and bubbles all build the pause-look-react rhythm of communication.
- Try anticipation games: "Ready... ready... GO!" Pause before "go" and wait for any look, sound or gesture before delighting them.
Build gestures, not just looking
- Model waving, clapping, pointing and "all done" hands. Hold your hand out and wait for them to give or reach rather than handing things over instantly.
- Offer choices held in each hand so your child must point, reach or look to tell you which one.
Follow their lead
- Watch what your child looks at, then join in and talk about it. Shared attention to the same object is the foundation of communication.
- Keep your face animated — big smiles, raised eyebrows, sing-song voice. Non-verbal communication is something you show, not something you test.
A gentle note
Some children, including many who are simply busy explorers, give less eye contact and that alone is not a worry. But if reduced eye contact, pointing or gesture goes alongside delayed words or limited back-and-forth play across many settings, a friendly developmental check is wise — early support is gentle and effective.
The Pinnacle way
Across 70+ centres in 4 states, our speech therapy and developmental teams coach families in exactly these playful, everyday strategies. Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional. under qualified clinician care — the AbilityScore® is a clinician-administered structured assessment that gives your child a clear baseline and tracks progress as you practise at home.
Trusted sources
Guidance here aligns with the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association on early social communication, and the CDC's developmental milestone resources on gestures, pointing and shared attention.
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This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.
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What to notice
Watch for whether your child increasingly looks to share moments with you, points or reaches to show interest, and copies your gestures over a few weeks. If reduced eye contact and gesture persist alongside delayed words across settings, arrange a developmental check.
In everyday life
Hold a favourite toy or snack up next to your eyes, wait for any glance towards your face, then immediately react with a big smile and give it — you are rewarding the look, not demanding it.
Bring your observations and questions to your child’s professional. Choose activities that suit your child’s comfort, abilities and agreed plan.
Bring your questions to a first visitQuestions families ask
Should I make my child look at me?
No — never hold a child's face or force eye contact, as this usually makes connection feel stressful. Instead, make your face rewarding: get face-to-face, play games your child loves, and hold favourite items near your eyes so looking towards you brings something good.
How much time should I spend on this each day?
Lots of short, playful moments work far better than long sessions. Weave eye contact and gesture games into everyday routines — bath time, meals, peek-a-boo, getting dressed — so it feels like play, not practice.
My child gives little eye contact. Is that always a concern?
Not on its own — many children give less eye contact and develop typically. It is worth a friendly developmental check if reduced eye contact, pointing or gesture goes alongside delayed words or limited back-and-forth interaction across different settings.
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References behind this answer.
- Organisation website · further readingASHA — early social communication and play
- Source referenceCDC — developmental milestones: gestures and shared attention
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Content attribution: SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network.
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