relating to people
One Everyday Therapy Activity for Relating to People
A simple daily activity to help a toddler relate to people is face-to-face turn-taking play — peek-a-boo, rolling a ball, copying sounds. These short, joyful back-and-forth exchanges teach the rhythm of connection and build social-communication pathways.
Connection is built in the smallest, most ordinary moments — a shared smile, a returned glance, a game of peek-a-boo.
In short
One of the simplest and most powerful Everyday Therapy activities for helping a toddler relate to people is face-to-face turn-taking play — short, joyful back-and-forth games like peek-a-boo, rolling a ball, or copying each other's sounds. These tiny exchanges teach your child the rhythm of relating: I do something, you respond, I respond back. Do it daily, follow your child's interest, and keep it light.The activity: "My turn, your turn"
Sit on the floor facing your child, close enough to share a smile. Pick something they already enjoy — a ball, a soft toy, a song with actions.- Start small. Roll the ball to them and say "your turn". Wait. When they respond — even a glance — light up: "my turn!"
- Follow their lead. If they look at the window, look too, then back at them. Sharing attention is relating.
- Add joy, not pressure. Exaggerate your face and voice. Pause and wait — the gap invites them to engage.
- Keep it short. Two or three happy minutes, several times a day, beats one long session.
The science
Relating to people (ICF chapter d7) grows through thousands of these reciprocal moments. Research on responsive, serve-and-return interaction shows that when a caregiver notices a child's cue and responds warmly, it builds the brain pathways for social connection, joint attention and communication. You are not drilling a skill — you are wiring a relationship.The Pinnacle way
Every child relates in their own way and at their own pace. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care — never from a home activity alone. Explore more on relating to people, see how we support connection through behaviour therapy, and learn about the AbilityScore®.Trusted sources
Guided by WHO ICF (chapter d7, interpersonal interactions), CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestones, and AAP healthychildren.org guidance on responsive play and social development.Next step — try "my turn, your turn" today, and message our team on WhatsApp (+91 91001 81181) to learn how Everyday Therapy fits your child.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
Watch for small wins: a returned glance, a shared smile, your child handing the ball back, or copying your sound. If by around 18 months your toddler rarely responds to their name, shares little eye contact, or shows no back-and-forth, mention it at your next developmental check.
Try this at home
Sit face-to-face, roll a ball and say 'your turn' — then pause and wait. The pause invites your child to respond. Two joyful minutes, several times a day.
Trusted sources
Developed by SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network · Last reviewed 2026-06-10 · reviewed every 540 days
This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
How often should we do turn-taking play?
Short and frequent works best — two or three joyful minutes, several times a day, woven into routines like bath, mealtime or play. Little and often builds more connection than one long session.
My toddler doesn't respond much yet. Should I worry?
Every child develops at their own pace, so keep the games light and pressure-free. If your toddler rarely responds to their name, shares little eye contact, or shows little back-and-forth by around 18 months, simply mention it at your next developmental check — it is a conversation, not a cause for alarm.
Can other family members do this activity?
Absolutely. Grandparents, siblings and caregivers can all play 'my turn, your turn'. Practising with different people helps your child generalise relating skills across the people they love.