nonverbal communication
One Everyday Activity for Nonverbal Communication
Use "pause and wait" during play your toddler loves: do the fun part once, then stop and wait expectantly for a gesture, point or eye contact before continuing. Responding instantly to that signal teaches your child their nonverbal communication has power — the foundation of all language.
Long before words arrive, your toddler is already talking — with eyes, hands and the brightest of smiles. One simple game at home can help that voice grow louder.
In short
Try "pause and wait" during everyday play: blow bubbles or roll a ball, then stop, look at your child, and wait expectantly for them to gesture, point, reach or make eye contact before you continue. This teaches your toddler that their nonverbal signals make wonderful things happen — the very foundation of communication.The everyday activity
Pick something your child loves — bubbles, a wind-up toy, a tickle game, or a favourite ball.1. Do the fun bit once so your child is delighted and wants more.
2. Then pause. Hold the bubble wand up, lean in, and wait with a warm, expectant face.
3. Watch for any nonverbal "more please" — a reach, a point, eye contact, a clap, a sound.
4. The moment they signal, respond instantly and joyfully: "You want more!" — and blow again.
That split-second pause is the magic. It hands your child the chance to initiate, and your quick response shows their gesture has power.
The science
This works because nonverbal communication (ICF d3 communicating) develops through responsive, back-and-forth exchanges — what researchers call "serve and return". Pausing creates a communication gap your child naturally wants to fill, and gesture, eye gaze and shared attention reliably emerge before spoken words. Following your child's lead and responding promptly are among the best-evidenced ways to strengthen early communication at home.The Pinnacle way
Little daily wins add up — and they grow faster with the right guidance. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under the care of a qualified clinician. Explore speech therapy for building communication step by step, learn what the AbilityScore® is, and find more ideas for nonverbal communication.Trusted sources
Guided by WHO ICF communication domains, CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestones, and AAP/HealthyChildren guidance on responsive, play-based early communication.Next step — play "pause and wait" once a day this week, then message our team on WhatsApp (+91 91001 81181) to learn more about gentle home-based communication support.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
Watch for any nonverbal "more please" — a reach, point, clap, eye contact or sound. If, by around 12 months, your child shows no gestures or pointing at all across many days, mention it at a developmental check.
Try this at home
During bubbles or a tickle game, do it once, then pause and wait with an expectant smile. The moment your child reaches, points or looks at you, respond instantly and joyfully.
Trusted sources
Developed by SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network · Last reviewed 2026-06-10 · reviewed every 540 days
This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
My toddler doesn't respond when I pause — am I doing it wrong?
Not at all. Some children need many repetitions before they fill the gap. Keep the pause warm and brief at first, model the gesture yourself (reach for the bubbles and say "more!"), then respond to any small signal. Patience and consistency matter more than perfection.
How long should I play this game?
Short and sweet works best — a few minutes, once or twice a day, woven into things your child already enjoys. Stop while it is still fun so your child stays eager to communicate next time.
Is it normal for a toddler to communicate without words?
Yes. Gestures, eye contact, pointing and shared smiles are healthy, expected steps that usually appear before spoken words. Strengthening these nonverbal skills helps lay the groundwork for speech.