not pointing at 18m
My 18-month-old doesn't point — should I worry?
Pointing — especially to share — is a milestone we watch around 18 months, so a gentle check is sensible if it isn't happening yet. But missing pointing alone is not a diagnosis; many children catch up, and early checking simply means support can start sooner. Only a Pinnacle clinician can establish a clinical picture.
When the other toddlers seem to be pointing at everything and yours isn't yet, it's natural to wonder — and asking the question is a caring, sensible first step.
In short
Pointing — especially pointing just to share something interesting, like a dog or an aeroplane — is one of the meaningful communication milestones we look for around 18 months. If your child isn't pointing yet, it's worth a gentle check, but it is not by itself a diagnosis of anything. Many children who are a little behind on pointing catch up beautifully, while for others an early look simply means support can start sooner. Worry is a good reason to check — it is not a verdict.What to look at, gently
By around 18 months, alongside pointing, it helps to notice the whole picture of how your child connects and communicates:- Sharing attention — does your child look back at you to share a moment (a smile, a glance) when something exciting happens?
- Following your point — when you point at something, does your child look where you're pointing?
- Other ways of communicating — gestures like waving, reaching, showing you things, or making sounds and a few words.
- Responding to their name and enjoying simple to-and-fro play like peek-a-boo.
A child who shares looks, follows your point and communicates warmly in other ways — even without a clear point yet — is often simply on their own timeline. A pattern where several of these are missing together is the more useful signal to act on.
When to check
Because pointing is a milestone we watch closely at this age, 18 months is exactly the right time for a general developmental check if you're unsure — not to label anything, but to get clear, reassuring information and a plan if one is needed. Early is always on your side.The Pinnacle way
Any clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, by qualified clinicians — never from an online form, an app, or a single milestone. A structured, clinician-administered check looks at the full picture of how your child communicates and connects, so you get clarity rather than worry. Explore how speech and communication therapy supports early gesture and language, and learn what the AbilityScore® is and how it's established.Trusted sources
US CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestone guidance highlights gesturing and pointing in the second year; the American Academy of Pediatrics (via HealthyChildren.org) describes shared attention and pointing as early communication milestones around 18 months.Next step — Not sure if your child is on track? Book a developmental check with a Pinnacle clinician for clear, kind answers.
This is general information, not a diagnosis — a clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care.
What to watch
Whether your child shares looks with you, follows your point, uses other gestures like waving or reaching, responds to their name, and enjoys to-and-fro play like peek-a-boo.
Try this at home
Narrate and point all day — "Look, a dog!" with an exaggerated point — and pause for your child to look and respond. Place a favourite toy just out of reach so reaching and gesturing become useful and rewarding.
Trusted sources
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This is general information, not a diagnosis. A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care.
Frequently asked
Is not pointing at 18 months a sign of autism?
Not pointing can be one of several early communication signals clinicians consider, but on its own it is not a diagnosis of autism. Many children who are slow to point catch up, while others simply benefit from earlier support. The useful step is a general developmental check that looks at the whole picture of how your child connects and communicates.
My child reaches and grabs but doesn't point — does that count?
Reaching to get something (a request) is a little different from pointing to share interest with you. Both are forms of communication and both are good signs your child wants to connect. If clear pointing — especially pointing just to share — hasn't appeared by around 18 months, it's worth a gentle check.
What can I do at home to encourage pointing?
Point at things often and name them with enthusiasm, then pause to let your child look and respond. Offer choices by holding up two items, and place favourite toys just out of reach so gesturing becomes useful. Lots of shared, playful back-and-forth helps pointing emerge naturally.
When should I definitely get my child assessed?
If by 18 months your child is not pointing and you also notice limited eye contact, few gestures, not responding to their name, or very few sounds and words, arrange a developmental check soon. Early is always on your side, and a clinician can give clear answers and a plan if one is needed.