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Social Milestones for Your 18-to-24-Month-Old
By 18–24 months, most toddlers share interest by pointing and showing, copy everyday actions, begin simple pretend play, and seek a parent's reaction. Children vary widely; raise it at a routine visit if your toddler rarely points to share, shows little interest in copying, or has lost a social skill.
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Between 18 and 24 months, your toddler is learning that other people are wonderfully interesting — and that they can connect, copy and share little moments with you.
In short
By 18–24 months, most toddlers enjoy being near familiar people, copy what others do, share interest by pointing and showing, and begin simple pretend play. These social skills (ICF d7 · interpersonal interactions) grow through everyday warmth, not formal teaching. Every child has their own pace — a gentle watch-and-share approach matters more than a single missed week.
What you may see
Connecting with you
- Brings or shows you a toy to share interest
- Points at things to draw your attention ("look at that!")
- Looks for your reaction in new or uncertain moments
- Hugs, claps or shows affection to familiar people
Playing and copying
- Imitates household actions — sweeping, talking on a phone, stirring
- Begins simple pretend play, like feeding a doll
- Plays happily alongside other children (true sharing comes later)
- May show brief separation upset, then settles
When to share a concern
These are signposts, not a checklist. Mention it at your next visit if, by around 24 months, your toddler rarely points to share interest, shows little interest in copying you, doesn't seek your attention, or has lost a social skill they once had. Persistent worry is itself a good reason for a friendly developmental check — never "wait and see" when something feels off.
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Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional., under qualified clinician care — a structured, clinician-administered assessment, never an online screen. If social play needs support, gentle, play-based behaviour therapy builds connection through everyday moments.
Trusted sources
Aligned with the WHO ICF framework for interpersonal interactions (d7), and developmental guidance from the CDC and the American Academy of Pediatrics.
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This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.
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What to notice
Raise it sooner if, by around 24 months, your toddler rarely points or shows to share interest, seldom copies you, doesn't seek your reaction, or has lost a social skill once present — any loss of skill warrants a prompt check.
In everyday life
Make 'show and share' a game: pause during play, point at something interesting, then look at your toddler and wait. These tiny back-and-forth moments are how social skills grow.
Bring your observations and questions to your child’s professional. Choose activities that suit your child’s comfort, abilities and agreed plan.
Bring your questions to a first visitQuestions families ask
Is it normal that my toddler plays next to other children but not with them?
Yes — at 18–24 months, playing alongside others (parallel play) is exactly what to expect. True cooperative, shared play develops gradually over the next year or two.
My toddler doesn't point to show me things yet. Should I worry?
Pointing to share interest is an important social skill that usually emerges around this age. If it hasn't appeared by 24 months, it's worth mentioning at a routine developmental check — not a cause for panic, but a good reason for a friendly look.
How can I encourage my toddler's social development at home?
Follow their lead in play, copy their actions, name what they're interested in, and create simple turn-taking games. Warm, responsive back-and-forth moments matter far more than structured teaching.
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References behind this answer.
- Source referenceICF d7
- Source referenceWHO ICF · Interpersonal interactions (d7)
- Source referenceCDC · Developmental milestones
- Organisation website · further readingAAP · HealthyChildren.org
References are supplied with this answer. An organisation homepage offers further reading; it does not establish an independent review of this page.
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