# When to refer possible Separation Anxiety Disorder

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Refer when separation distress is persistent (around 4 weeks or more), out of step with the child's age, and causing real impairment — school refusal, sleep problems, or unexplained physical complaints. Brief clinginess settles; an escalating, impairing pattern needs a specialist. Only a clinician can diagnose.

*A worried clinging child is common — your job at the frontline is to spot when ordinary worry has tipped into something that needs a specialist's eye.*

## In short
Refer when separation distress is **persistent (lasting several weeks or more), developmentally out of step, and causing real impairment** — the child is missing school, not sleeping, complaining of headaches or tummy aches with no medical cause, or the family routine has stalled. Brief clinginess at a new playgroup or after a move is normal and usually settles. A pattern that does not ease, or that is escalating, is your referral signal.

## When to refer — the decision points
Refer a child with possible [Separation Anxiety Disorder](/separation-anxiety-disorder) (ICD-11 **6B05**) to a specialist when you see:

- **Duration** — fear or distress about separation lasting roughly **4 weeks or more** in a child, well beyond settling-in.
- **Function** — school refusal or repeated absence, refusing to sleep alone, unable to be left with a familiar carer.
- **Body signs** — recurrent headaches, nausea or stomach aches at the point of separation, with no medical cause found.
- **Intensity** — panic, inconsolable crying, or excessive worry that harm will come to a parent.
- **Red flags for urgent review** — self-harm talk, complete refusal to eat, or a sudden change after a frightening event.

If in doubt, refer for assessment rather than wait — early help is gentler and shorter.

## The science, briefly
Separation anxiety is a normal developmental stage peaking in toddlers. It becomes a *disorder* only when it is excessive for age, persistent and impairing — the distinction WHO draws in ICD-11. Identified early, most children respond well to family-based behavioural support, so timely referral changes the trajectory.

## The Pinnacle way
Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional., under qualified clinician care — never from a form or a single visit. Our clinicians review your referral against the child's [own developmental baseline](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and plan [child-and-family behavioural therapy](/behavioural-therapy) where needed. As a frontline worker, your early note is invaluable.

## Trusted sources
WHO ICD-11 (6B05); American Academy of Pediatrics guidance on childhood anxiety; NICE guidance on anxiety in children and young people.

**Next step —** Don't wait for it to pass on its own. [Book a developmental assessment](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/enroll-autism-speech-aba-therapies-india) so a clinician can guide the family.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICD-11: Separation Anxiety Disorder: https://icd.who.int/
- American Academy of Pediatrics — childhood anxiety guidance: https://www.aap.org/
- NICE — anxiety in children and young people: https://www.nice.org.uk/

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