# When to refer suspected attachment difficulties for developmental therapy

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Refer when relational disturbance is persistent, pervasive across caregivers and settings, and functionally impairing — not after one distressed episode. Screen first for maltreatment and safeguarding, begin with dyadic caregiver-inclusive support, and add developmental therapy where comorbid delay, communication or regulatory difficulties coexist. Diagnosis is made only by a Pinnacle clinician.

*A warm, secure relationship is the scaffolding for a child's whole development — when it falters, the question is when to act, and who should act first.*

## In short
Refer a child with suspected attachment difficulties when relational disturbance is **persistent, pervasive across caregivers and settings, and accompanied by functional impact** on social-emotional development, behaviour or co-regulation — not after a single distressed presentation. Critically, refer **early to the right pathway**: attachment difficulties are relational and contextual, so the first port of call is dyadic, caregiver-inclusive psychological support, with developmental therapy added when there is comorbid developmental delay, communication impairment, or sensory-regulatory dysfunction. Always screen first for maltreatment, disrupted care and safeguarding concerns.

## When to refer
Consider referral when, across more than one relationship and setting and persisting beyond a few weeks, you observe:

- **Markedly disturbed, developmentally inappropriate social relatedness** — either inhibited/withdrawn (minimal seeking of comfort, blunted affect) or disinhibited/indiscriminate sociability with unfamiliar adults.
- **Failure of expected comfort-seeking and co-regulation** following distress, beyond what context explains.
- **Functional impact** — on peer relationships, emotional regulation, exploration and learning.
- **Comorbid developmental concerns** — language delay, social-communication differences, sensory-processing or self-regulation difficulties — which is where developmental and speech-language therapy add value alongside relational work.

Referral is more urgent where there is a history of institutional care, repeated placement change, severe neglect or trauma. Differentiate from autism spectrum presentations, which can overlap — a structured multidisciplinary assessment disentangles these. In WHO ICD-11, reactive attachment disorder (6B44) and disinhibited social engagement disorder (6B45) sit within disorders associated with stress, underscoring that the relational and environmental context is central to formulation.

## The Pinnacle way
A formal clinical diagnosis and any [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) baseline are established only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under a qualified clinician, never from an online form or a screening conversation. For [attachment difficulties](/attachment-difficulties), our team begins with a caregiver-inclusive, dyadic formulation, screens for safeguarding and developmental comorbidity, and where indicated coordinates [developmental and behavioural therapy](/developmental-therapy) so relational support and skill-building advance together. With 700+ therapists across 70+ centres, the goal is a child who feels safe enough to explore, connect and grow.

## Trusted sources
WHO ICD-11 (reactive attachment disorder 6B44; disinhibited social engagement disorder 6B45); American Academy of Pediatrics guidance on early relational health and the medical home; AAP HealthyChildren on social-emotional development.

**Next step —** When the relational picture is persistent and impairing, don't wait it out. [Refer for a structured developmental and relational assessment](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/enroll-autism-speech-aba-therapies-india) at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICD-11: Reactive attachment disorder: https://icd.who.int/
- WHO ICD-11: Disinhibited social engagement disorder: https://icd.who.int/
- AAP HealthyChildren: social-emotional development: https://www.healthychildren.org/

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