{"h1":"When do children usually start social greeting?","faq":[{"a":"Many babies begin waving around 9 to 12 months, often copying the gestures they see at home. With warm daily modelling, a wave paired with \"bye-bye\" usually appears by 12 to 15 months.","q":"At what age do babies start waving?"},{"a":"Yes. Many three-year-olds still need a gentle reminder to greet people, and greetings become more spontaneous between 3 and 4 years. Friendly modelling helps the skill grow.","q":"Is it normal for my 3-year-old to need reminders to say hello?"},{"a":"If your three-year-old rarely makes eye contact, doesn't wave or respond to their name, or shows little interest in connecting with familiar people across settings, a developmental screen is a sensible, calm next step.","q":"When should I be concerned about social greeting?"}],"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social-greeting","title":"When do children usually start social greeting?","entity":{"key":"social-greeting","kind":"skill","name":"social greeting","slug":"social-greeting"},"lenses":[{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Parent / Family","value":"parent"},{"kind":"age","label":"Child","value":"child"},{"kind":"domain","label":"Social","value":"social"},{"kind":"intent","label":"Milestone","value":"milestone"},{"kind":"lifecycle","label":"Screen","value":"screen"},{"kind":"route","label":"Book-Assessment","value":"book-assessment"},{"kind":"empowerment","label":"Early Clarity","value":"early_clarity"},{"kind":"language","label":"English","value":"en"},{"kind":"sdg","label":"SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being","value":"3"},{"kind":"skill","label":"social greeting","value":"social-greeting"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"ASHA / PHC / Frontline","value":"asha_phc"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Therapist / Clinician","value":"therapist"}],"parent":{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"},"related":[{"lang":"en","slug":"is-it-normal-that-my-child-is-not-yet-showing-social-greeting","title":"Is It Normal My Child Isn't Yet Showing Social Greeting?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"at-what-age-should-a-child-social-greeting","title":"At what age should a child use social greetings?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"as-a-caregiver-what-should-i-do-if-a-child-in-my-care-is-not-yet-showing-social-greeting","title":"Caregiver Guide: When a Child Isn't Greeting Yet"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-signs-suggest-my-child-may-need-support-with-social-greeting","title":"What signs suggest my child may need support with social greeting?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"by-what-age-is-a-child-usually-expected-to-social-greeting-and-what-should-a-teacher-expect-in-class","title":"Social greeting milestone — age expectations for teachers"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-work-on-social-greeting-with-my-child-at-home","title":"How to Work on Social Greeting at Home"}],"summary":"Most children begin social greetings such as waving around 9–12 months, pair a wave with \"bye-bye\" by 12–15 months, and greet familiar people more spontaneously by 3–4 years. Gentle reminders remain normal through the preschool years.","answer_md":"*The moment your child waves \"bye-bye\" or says \"hi\" to a neighbour, you're watching a beautiful social skill bloom — right on its own gentle timeline.*\n\n## In short\nMost children begin simple social greetings — waving and gesturing — around **9 to 12 months**, often pairing a wave with \"bye-bye\" by **12 to 15 months**. By **2 to 3 years** many greet familiar people with a word or wave when prompted, and by **3 to 4 years** they offer greetings more spontaneously, including basic politeness like \"hi\" and \"bye\". Every child arrives at this in their own time, and warm reminders are perfectly normal well into the preschool years.\n\n## How social greeting grows\nGreeting is a shared social skill (ICF d7, interpersonal interactions) that builds on joint attention, imitation and the joy of connecting:\n\n- **9–12 months** — waves, lifts arms, watches your face and copies gestures\n- **12–18 months** — waves \"bye-bye\", may say \"hi\" or \"bye\" with a cue\n- **2–3 years** — greets familiar people with a word or gesture when reminded\n- **3–4 years** — greets more spontaneously, uses names, simple politeness\n\nGreetings are learned through repetition and modelling — children copy the warm exchanges they see at home and in their community every day.\n\n## When to check in\nIf your three-year-old rarely makes eye contact, doesn't wave or respond to their name, or shows little interest in connecting with familiar people across different settings, a friendly [developmental screen](/social-greeting) is a calm, sensible next step — not a cause for alarm.\n\n## The Pinnacle way\nAt Pinnacle Blooms Network, a clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care — never from an online list. Our [speech therapy](/speech-therapy) and developmental teams support social-communication skills with play, modelling and family coaching across 70+ centres in 4 states.\n\n## Trusted sources\nAligned with CDC \"Learn the Signs. Act Early.\" milestones, AAP/HealthyChildren guidance on social-emotional development, and WHO ICF interpersonal-interaction domains.\n\n**Next step —** if you'd like reassurance about your child's social greetings, book a developmental check with the Pinnacle team on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.\n\nThis is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","canonical":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/when-do-children-usually-social-greeting","editorial":{"reviewed_at":"2026-06-11T20:12:18.613642+00:00","reviewed_by":null,"developed_by":"SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network"},"alternates":[{"href":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/when-do-children-usually-social-greeting","lang":"en","indexable":true}],"dimensions":[{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"}],"meta_title":"When Do Children Start Social Greeting?","meta_robots":"index, follow, max-image-preview:large","everyday_tip":"Model greetings warmly every day — wave and say \"hi\" and \"bye\" at the door, during video calls and with neighbours. 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