# What signs suggest my child may need support with social?

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Between 12 and 36 months, signs your toddler may need support with social skills include limited eye contact, rarely sharing smiles or pointing to show things, not responding to their name, little copying of gestures, and limited interest in other children. Toddlers vary widely, so these are signs to observe and share — not to diagnose at home. Several signs together, a gap that persists across months, or any loss of social skills warrants a friendly developmental screen.

*Little ones learn to connect long before they learn to talk — so how do you tell a quiet, slow-to-warm pace from a pattern worth a gentle, closer look?*

## In short
Between 12 and 36 months, signs that your toddler may welcome a little extra support with social skills can include limited eye contact, rarely sharing smiles or pointing to show you things, little interest in other children, not responding to their name, and few back-and-forth gestures like waving or clapping. Every toddler has their own pace — so these are signs to *observe and share*, not to diagnose at home. If you notice several together, or a gap that lingers across months, a friendly developmental screen is the kindest next step.

## Social signs to watch (12–36 months)
Social skills grow through small, joyful loops of connection — looking, smiling, pointing and copying.

**Connecting and sharing**
- Limited or fleeting eye contact during play and feeds
- Rarely shares enjoyment — few shared smiles or showing you a toy
- Little use of pointing to *show* (not just to want) by around 18 months

**Responding to people**
- Doesn't reliably respond to their name by 12–15 months
- Seems more interested in objects than faces or people
- Limited copying of simple actions like waving, clapping or peek-a-boo

**Playing with others**
- Little interest in or awareness of other children by 2–3 years
- Rarely brings you into play or follows your gaze and gestures

What shifts this from an ordinary slow-to-warm temperament towards something to assess is **several signs together**, a **gap that persists or widens across months**, or **any loss of social skills your child once had** — that last one warrants a prompt check.

## When to seek a check
A toddler who is shy or simply takes time to warm up is well within normal variation. Bring concerns about eye contact, name response, pointing, or interest in others to your paediatrician or a developmental team — early, gentle support never waits for a label, and a hearing check often comes first.

## The Pinnacle way
At [Pinnacle Blooms Network](/), we begin with what your child *can* do and build connection through warm, play-based therapy, coaching you as your child's everyday partner. Explore how we nurture [social](/social) skills and [behavioural therapy](/behavioural-therapy), and how monitoring works. A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — nothing here is a diagnosis. Across 70+ centres in 4 states and 4.95 lakh+ families served, our aim is steady, strengths-first progress.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with CDC milestone guidance, American Academy of Pediatrics and HealthyChildren.org guidance on developmental monitoring, and WHO Nurturing Care resources.

**Next step —** if your toddler shows social signs you'd like understood, book a developmental screen with our clinical team on WhatsApp at +91 91001 81181, and let's understand your little one together.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- CDC — Developmental Milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- HealthyChildren.org (AAP) — Toddler Development: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/Pages/default.aspx
- WHO — Nurturing Care Framework: https://nurturing-care.org/

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