# Everyday Therapy activity for social sharing in toddlers

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One easy everyday activity is a playful "My turn, your turn" game with a favourite toy or rolling a ball back and forth — making sharing a joyful back-and-forth rather than a demand. For toddlers, sharing emerges slowly, so celebrate every small offer and keep turns short and happy.

*Sharing isn't a rule we teach toddlers — it's a feeling of joy they discover when giving something to someone they love.*

## In short
One lovely everyday activity is **"My turn, your turn" with a single favourite toy or snack** — you hold an object, say "My turn," then warmly hand it over saying "Your turn!" and beam when your child gives it back. Done playfully a few times a day, this turns sharing into a happy back-and-forth game rather than a demand. For toddlers, sharing grows slowly and naturally — celebrate every small offer.

## Try this at home
- **Pick one item** your child likes — a ball, a soft toy, or pieces of a banana.
- **Model it first:** "My turn" (you hold it briefly), then "Your turn!" (you give it). Keep your face bright and your voice sing-song.
- **Roll a ball back and forth** on the floor — this is one of the easiest first shares because the toy always comes back.
- **Name the feeling:** "You gave it to me — thank you! That made me happy." Toddlers learn sharing through your delight, not through pressure.
- **Keep turns short** so waiting never feels too long, and always end on a win.

## The science
Social sharing (ICF d7, interpersonal interactions) develops on the back of *joint attention* — the shared back-and-forth that turn-taking games build. Between 12 and 36 months, children are just beginning to understand that another person has wants too, so true "sharing" is emerging, not expected. Frequent, low-pressure turn-taking gives the brain repeated, joyful practice of giving and receiving — the foundation for later cooperation and friendship.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical AbilityScore® and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — this home activity supports everyday growth and never replaces assessment. Explore more on [social sharing](/social-sharing), our [occupational therapy](/occupational-therapy) approach, and how the [AbilityScore® is calculated](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated).

## Trusted sources
Guided by WHO ICF interpersonal-interaction domains and AAP/HealthyChildren guidance on social-emotional play in toddlers, which highlight turn-taking games as developmentally appropriate steps toward sharing.

**Next step —** try "My turn, your turn" today, and to understand your child's social strengths, reach our team on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- AAP HealthyChildren: toddler social-emotional play: https://www.healthychildren.org
- WHO ICF interpersonal interactions (d7): https://icd.who.int

## Connected topics and perspectives
- Skills: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/skills
- Parent / Family: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/parent
- Toddler: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/age/toddler
- Social: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/social
- Home Support: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/home_support
- Act: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/act
- Book Assessment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/book-assessment
- Family Empowerment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/family_empowerment
- Social: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/ability/social
- Modified Checklist for Autism in Toddlers, Revised with Follow-Up: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/assessment/mchatrf
- English: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/language/en
- SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/sdg/3
- social sharing: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/skill/social-sharing
- Caregiver: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/caregiver
- Therapist / Clinician: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/therapist

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- How to Assess & Track Social Sharing: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-a-clinician-assess-and-track-a-child-s-progress-in-learning-to-social-sharing

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- Amber zone for social – sharing — what next?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-amber-zone-for-social-sharing-what-should-we-do-next
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- Red Zone for Social Sharing — Next Steps: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-red-zone-for-social-sharing-what-should-we-do-next
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- How a Teacher Can Support a Student Learning to Share: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-a-teacher-support-a-student-who-is-still-learning-to-social-sharing
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- Prioritising a green-zone social–sharing result: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-green-zone-for-social-sharing
- How should a therapist prioritise a child in the red zone for social sharing?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-red-zone-for-social-sharing

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