# What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child with social greeting?

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Use the daily "Hello Routine": pair a warm word with a wave at every arrival and goodbye, pause to give your child a turn, and celebrate any attempt. Repeating it in real-life moments turns a prompted greeting into a natural, confident habit.

*A wave at the door, a shy "hi" to grandma — these tiny moments are how your child learns to belong in the world.*

## In short
Try the **"Hello Routine"**: every time someone arrives or leaves, pair a warm word ("Hi!" / "Bye!") with a wave, and pause to give your child a turn. Do it the same way, every day, at predictable moments — repetition and routine are what turn a prompted greeting into a natural habit. Keep it short, joyful and pressure-free.

## The everyday activity
Greetings live in the everyday gaps of family life — answering the door, video calls with relatives, dropping off at school, saying goodnight to toys.

**How to do the Hello Routine:**
- **Model first.** You say "Hi Nana!" and wave clearly, so your child sees and hears it.
- **Pause and wait.** Give a few seconds of expectant silence — children often fill the gap.
- **Offer a smaller step.** If words are hard, accept a wave, a high-five, or even eye contact. Every version counts.
- **Celebrate warmly.** A smile and "You said hello to Nana!" makes the moment feel good and worth repeating.
- **Practise with favourites.** Greet toys, pets and characters in books — low-pressure rehearsal builds confidence.

## The science
Greetings are a *joint-attention* and *social reciprocity* skill (ICF d7, interpersonal interactions). Children learn them through predictable, repeated routines where the social reward — a smile, a name, warmth — is immediate. Embedding practice into natural daily moments, rather than drilling, helps the skill generalise to real life. Honouring partial attempts keeps motivation high and lowers anxiety, which matters most for shy or cautious children.

## The Pinnacle way
Every child's pace is their own — a clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care, never from a home activity alone. For tailored guidance, explore [social greeting](/social-greeting) support and our [speech therapy](/speech-therapy) programmes.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with WHO ICF (d7 interpersonal interactions), CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." social-emotional milestones, and ASHA guidance on social communication.

**Next step —** weave the Hello Routine into one daily moment this week, and message our team on WhatsApp (+91 91001 81181) to learn how Everyday Therapy fits your child.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICF — interpersonal interactions (d7): https://icd.who.int
- CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early.: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- ASHA — social communication: https://www.asha.org

## Connected topics and perspectives
- Skills: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/skills
- Parent / Family: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/parent
- Child: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/age/child
- Social: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/social
- Home Support: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/home_support
- Act: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/act
- Book Assessment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/book-assessment
- Family Empowerment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/family_empowerment
- English: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/language/en
- SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/sdg/3
- social greeting: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/skill/social-greeting
- Caregiver: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/caregiver
- Therapist / Clinician: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/therapist

## Related question paths

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- At what age should a child use social greetings?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/at-what-age-should-a-child-social-greeting
- Could difficulty with social greeting be a sign of a developmental delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/could-difficulty-with-social-greeting-be-a-sign-of-a-developmental-delay
- Is It Normal My Child Isn't Yet Showing Social Greeting?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-it-normal-that-my-child-is-not-yet-showing-social-greeting
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- Caregiver Guide: When a Child Isn't Greeting Yet: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-caregiver-what-should-i-do-if-a-child-in-my-care-is-not-yet-showing-social-greeting
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- Amber Zone for Social Greeting: What It Means: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-amber-zone-for-social-greeting-what-does-that-mean
- Green Zone for Social Greeting Explained: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-green-zone-for-social-greeting-what-does-that-mean
- Red Zone for Social Greeting — What It Means: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-red-zone-for-social-greeting-what-does-that-mean
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- Green zone for social greeting: what to do next: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-green-zone-for-social-greeting-what-should-we-do-next
- Red Zone in Social Greeting — Your Next Steps: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-red-zone-for-social-greeting-what-should-we-do-next
- Techniques to develop social greeting: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-therapist-what-techniques-help-a-child-develop-the-ability-to-social-greeting
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- How should a therapist prioritise a child in the amber zone for social greeting?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-amber-zone-for-social-greeting
- How should a therapist prioritise a child in the green zone for social greeting?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-green-zone-for-social-greeting
- How should a therapist prioritise a child in the red zone for social greeting?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-red-zone-for-social-greeting

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- Helping Your Child Practise Social Greetings at Home: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-caregiver-how-can-i-gently-help-a-child-practise-learning-to-social-greeting-during-everyday-routines
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