# What is one Everyday Therapy activity for nonverbal communication?

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Use "pause and wait" during play your toddler loves: do the fun part once, then stop and wait expectantly for a gesture, point or eye contact before continuing. Responding instantly to that signal teaches your child their nonverbal communication has power — the foundation of all language.

*Long before words arrive, your toddler is already talking — with eyes, hands and the brightest of smiles. One simple game at home can help that voice grow louder.*

## In short
Try **"pause and wait"** during everyday play: blow bubbles or roll a ball, then stop, look at your child, and wait expectantly for them to gesture, point, reach or make eye contact before you continue. This teaches your toddler that their nonverbal signals make wonderful things happen — the very foundation of communication.

## The everyday activity
Pick something your child loves — bubbles, a wind-up toy, a tickle game, or a favourite ball.

1. Do the fun bit once so your child is delighted and wants more.
2. Then **pause**. Hold the bubble wand up, lean in, and wait with a warm, expectant face.
3. Watch for any nonverbal "more please" — a reach, a point, eye contact, a clap, a sound.
4. The moment they signal, respond instantly and joyfully: "You want more!" — and blow again.

That split-second pause is the magic. It hands your child the chance to *initiate*, and your quick response shows their gesture has power.

## The science
This works because nonverbal communication ([ICF d3 communicating](/nonverbal-communication)) develops through responsive, back-and-forth exchanges — what researchers call "serve and return". Pausing creates a communication gap your child naturally wants to fill, and gesture, eye gaze and shared attention reliably emerge before spoken words. Following your child's lead and responding promptly are among the best-evidenced ways to strengthen early communication at home.

## The Pinnacle way
Little daily wins add up — and they grow faster with the right guidance. Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional., under the care of a qualified clinician. Explore [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) for building communication step by step, learn [what the AbilityScore® is](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated), and find more ideas for [nonverbal communication](/nonverbal-communication).

## Trusted sources
Guided by WHO ICF communication domains, CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestones, and AAP/HealthyChildren guidance on responsive, play-based early communication.

**Next step —** play "pause and wait" once a day this week, then message our team on WhatsApp (+91 91001 81181) to learn more about gentle home-based communication support.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- CDC: Learn the Signs. Act Early.: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- AAP HealthyChildren: early communication and play: https://www.healthychildren.org
- WHO ICF communication domains (d3): https://icd.who.int

## Connected topics and perspectives
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- Parent / Family: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/parent
- Toddler: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/age/toddler
- Communication: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/communication
- Home Support: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/home_support
- Act: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/act
- Book Assessment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/book-assessment
- Family Empowerment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/family_empowerment
- Non-Verbal: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/ability/non-verbal
- Childhood Autism Rating Scale, 2nd ed.: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/assessment/cars2
- English: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/language/en
- SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/sdg/3
- nonverbal communication: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/skill/nonverbal-communication
- Caregiver: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/caregiver
- Therapist / Clinician: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/therapist

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