{"h1":"One everyday activity to build your child's listening skills","faq":[{"a":"Ten minutes a day is plenty for a 3–7 year old. Short, cheerful sessions that end on a win build listening skills far better than long ones. Repeat daily and let it stay fun.","q":"How long should we play this listening game?"},{"a":"Not at all — that is exactly where to start. Going from one step to two or three is the skill being built. Stay at one step until it is easy, then gently add a second. Progress is gradual and individual.","q":"My child can do one instruction but not two. Is that a problem?"},{"a":"First, always secure eye contact and say their name before speaking. If they consistently struggle even at close range or seem not to hear, mention it at a developmental check and ask about a hearing review — listening always rests on hearing first.","q":"What if my child ignores me even with one clear instruction?"}],"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-listening-skills","title":"What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child with listening skills?","entity":{"key":"listening-skills","kind":"skill","name":"listening skills","slug":"listening-skills"},"lenses":[{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Parent / Family","value":"parent"},{"kind":"age","label":"Child","value":"child"},{"kind":"domain","label":"Emotional","value":"emotional"},{"kind":"intent","label":"Home Support","value":"home_support"},{"kind":"lifecycle","label":"Act","value":"act"},{"kind":"route","label":"Behaviour-Therapy","value":"behaviour-therapy"},{"kind":"empowerment","label":"Family Empowerment","value":"family_empowerment"},{"kind":"ability","label":"Impulsivity","value":"impulsivity"},{"kind":"assessment","label":"Conners 3rd Edition","value":"conners3"},{"kind":"assessment","label":"Preschool Language Scales, 5th Ed","value":"pls5"},{"kind":"language","label":"English","value":"en"},{"kind":"sdg","label":"SDG 10: Reduced Inequalities","value":"10"},{"kind":"sdg","label":"SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being","value":"3"},{"kind":"skill","label":"listening skills","value":"listening-skills"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Caregiver","value":"caregiver"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Therapist / Clinician","value":"therapist"}],"parent":{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"},"related":[{"lang":"en","slug":"what-therapy-helps-a-child-learn-to-listening-skills","title":"What therapy helps a child build listening skills?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-work-on-listening-skills-with-my-child-at-home","title":"Working on Listening Skills at Home"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-help-my-child-with-learn-to-listening-skills-at-home","title":"How can I help my child learn listening skills at home?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-work-on-active-listening-with-my-child-at-home","title":"How to Work on Active Listening With Your Child at Home"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-auditory-processing","title":"An Everyday Therapy Activity for Your Child's Auditory Processing"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-work-on-focused-listening-with-my-child-at-home","title":"How can I work on Focused Listening with my child at home?"}],"summary":"Play \"Listen, then do\": secure your child's attention, give one clear instruction, celebrate, then build to two and three steps. This daily 10-minute game strengthens auditory attention and working memory (ICF b152) for children aged 3–7.","answer_md":"*Listening isn't about sitting still and being quiet — it's a playful, whole-body skill your child builds one small game at a time.*\n\n## In short\nTry **\"Listen, then do\"** — a simple, joyful game of giving your child one clear instruction, then two, then three in a row, and celebrating each time they follow it. For a 3–7 year old, this builds the core listening skill of holding sounds and instructions in mind long enough to act on them — and it costs nothing but ten happy minutes.\n\n## The everyday activity: \"Listen, then do\"\n1. **Get close and connect first.** Crouch to your child's eye level and say their name. Wait for them to turn towards you — that moment of attention is where listening begins.\n2. **Give one instruction.** \"Please put the red block in the box.\" Keep it short and specific. Celebrate warmly when they do it.\n3. **Build slowly.** Once one step is easy, try two: \"Touch your nose, then clap.\" Then three. Going from one to three is real skill-building, not a test.\n4. **Make it silly and turn-take.** Let your child be the instruction-giver and you the listener (mistakes welcome!). Swapping roles strengthens attention and impulse control — the gap between hearing and acting.\n\nKeep sessions short, end on a win, and repeat daily. Listening skills grow with cheerful repetition, not pressure.\n\n## The science\nFollowing spoken instructions draws on auditory attention and working memory (ICF b152). Slowing down, securing eye contact before speaking, and stretching from one to multi-step commands gives children structured practice — the same principle clinicians use in [behaviour therapy](/behaviour-therapy) to bridge the gap between hearing and responding, which also supports impulse control.\n\n## The Pinnacle way\nEvery child's listening grows at their own pace. Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional., under qualified clinician care — this home activity supports, never replaces, that. Explore more on [listening skills](/listening-skills), see how progress is measured with the [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated), and learn about [behaviour therapy](/behaviour-therapy) at home and in centre.\n\n## Trusted sources\nGuided by WHO ICF (b152, attending to sound), AAP and HealthyChildren.org guidance on talking and listening with young children, and ASHA resources on language development.\n\n**Next step —** try \"Listen, then do\" once a day this week, and message the Pinnacle team on WhatsApp (+91 91001 81181) to learn how we support listening and attention skills.\n\nThis is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","canonical":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-listening-skills","editorial":{"reviewed_at":"2026-06-11T20:12:18.613642+00:00","reviewed_by":null,"developed_by":"SETU 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If they consistently struggle even with a single clear instruction at close range, or seem not to hear, mention it at a developmental check and consider a hearing review.","authority_links":[{"url":"https://icd.who.int","code":"b152","label":"WHO ICF — b152 attending to sound and listening"},{"url":"https://www.healthychildren.org","label":"AAP HealthyChildren.org — talking and listening with young children"},{"url":"https://www.asha.org","label":"ASHA — language and listening development"}],"last_reviewed_at":"2026-06-10T12:24:00.159853+00:00","meta_description":"Try the simple \"Listen, then do\" game to build your 3–7 year old's listening skills at home — one clear instruction at a time, celebrated daily.","related_materials":[],"related_techniques":[]}