# What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child with attention to others?

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Try the "Look what I have!" game: hold an interesting object near your face, name it warmly, then pause and wait for your child to look at you — and reward that glance instantly with delight. Five joyful minutes a few times a day builds attention to others, the foundation of shared social interest.

*Some of the warmest learning happens when a child turns to look at what someone else is doing — and you can grow that with one simple game.*

## In short
A lovely everyday activity is **"Look what I have!"** — you hold up an interesting object, name it with bright eyes and a sing-song voice, then pause and wait for your child to look at you and the object. This builds *attention to others* (ICF d7), the foundation of shared social interest. Just five focused minutes a few times a day, woven into play, is plenty for a 3–7 year old.

## The everyday activity
Sit at your child's eye level during play. Pick something they like — a toy car, a bubble wand, a snack. Hold it near your face so your child has to look towards *you* to see it. Say warmly, *"Look what I have!"* Then **wait** — count silently to five. The pause is the magic; it gives your child space to turn, glance at you, and connect. When they look, reward it instantly with delight: blow the bubble, hand over the toy, smile big. You are teaching that *looking at people pays off* — that faces carry information and fun.

Build it up gently: take turns ("Now you show me!"), point to things across the room together, and name what you both notice. Keep it light and joyful — never a drill.

## The science
Attention to others is the seedbed of joint attention, language and social learning. Children learn by following another person's gaze and interest; warm, responsive back-and-forth — what researchers call *serve and return* — strengthens exactly these pathways. Pairing the moment a child looks with an immediate, pleasurable response makes that social glance more likely to repeat.

## The Pinnacle way
Every child grows this skill at their own pace — a clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care, never from a home activity. Explore more on [attention to others](/attention-to-others) and how gentle [behaviour therapy](/behaviour-therapy) supports social awareness.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early.", the American Academy of Pediatrics' guidance on responsive interaction, and WHO Nurturing Care framework principles on early relational play.

**Next step —** try "Look what I have!" today, and message the Pinnacle team on WhatsApp +91 91001 81181 for a friendly developmental check.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- ICF d7: https://icd.who.int/browse11
- CDC – Learn the Signs. Act Early.: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- AAP – HealthyChildren.org: https://www.healthychildren.org
- WHO Nurturing Care Framework: https://nurturing-care.org

## Connected topics and perspectives
- Skills: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/skills
- Parent / Family: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/parent
- Child: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/age/child
- Social: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/social
- Home Support: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/home_support
- Act: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/act
- Behaviour Therapy: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/behaviour-therapy
- Family Empowerment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/family_empowerment
- Social Awareness: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/ability/social-awareness
- Social Responsiveness Scale, 2nd Ed: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/assessment/srs2
- English: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/language/en
- SDG 10: Reduced Inequalities: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/sdg/10
- SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/sdg/3
- attention to others: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/skill/attention-to-others
- Caregiver: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/caregiver
- Teacher / Educator: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/teacher
- Therapist / Clinician: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/therapist

## Related question paths

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- At What Age Should a Child Show Attention to Others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/at-what-age-should-a-child-attention-to-others
- Could difficulty with attention to others be a sign of a developmental delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/could-difficulty-with-attention-to-others-be-a-sign-of-a-developmental-delay
- Is it normal that my child is not yet showing attention to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-it-normal-that-my-child-is-not-yet-showing-attention-to-others
- What does it mean if my child is not yet showing attention to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-it-mean-if-my-child-is-not-yet-showing-attention-to-others
- What signs suggest my child may need support with attention to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-signs-suggest-my-child-may-need-support-with-attention-to-others
- When do children usually pay attention to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/when-do-children-usually-attention-to-others
- When a child isn't yet showing attention to others: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-caregiver-what-should-i-do-if-a-child-in-my-care-is-not-yet-showing-attention-to-others
- By what age does a child attend to others, and what should a teacher expect?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/by-what-age-is-a-child-usually-expected-to-attention-to-others-and-what-should-a-teacher-expect-in-class
- Observing attention to others during a home visit: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/during-a-home-visit-what-should-a-frontline-worker-observe-about-a-child-learning-to-attention-to-others
- Attention to Others: When a Frontline Worker Should Escalate: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/if-a-child-cannot-attention-to-others-at-the-expected-age-when-should-a-frontline-health-worker-escalate
- Difficulty attending to others: a referral red flag?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-difficulty-learning-to-attention-to-others-a-clinical-red-flag-that-warrants-a-developmental-referral

### Understand assessment
- Amber zone for attention to others — what it means: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-amber-zone-for-attention-to-others-what-does-that-mean
- What a green zone for attention to others means: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-green-zone-for-attention-to-others-what-does-that-mean
- What a red zone for attention to others means: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-red-zone-for-attention-to-others-what-does-that-mean
- How clinicians assess and track attention to others: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-a-clinician-assess-and-track-a-child-s-progress-in-learning-to-attention-to-others

### Explore therapy & support
- How can a teacher support a child working on attention to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-a-teacher-support-a-child-working-on-attention-to-others
- What therapy helps a child learn to attend to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-therapy-helps-a-child-learn-to-attention-to-others
- Amber zone for attention to others — what should we do next?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-amber-zone-for-attention-to-others-what-should-we-do-next
- Green zone for attention to others — what to do next: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-green-zone-for-attention-to-others-what-should-we-do-next
- Red zone for attention to others: what to do next: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/my-child-is-in-the-red-zone-for-attention-to-others-what-should-we-do-next
- Techniques to build a child's attention to others: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-therapist-what-techniques-help-a-child-develop-the-ability-to-attention-to-others
- How a Teacher Can Support a Student Learning to Attend to Others: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-a-teacher-support-a-student-who-is-still-learning-to-attention-to-others
- How should a therapist prioritise a child who is in the amber zone for attention to others?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-amber-zone-for-attention-to-others
- Prioritising a green-zone child for attention to others: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-green-zone-for-attention-to-others
- Prioritising a Red-Zone Attention-to-Others Profile: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-should-a-therapist-prioritise-a-child-who-is-in-the-red-zone-for-attention-to-others

### At home & in everyday life
- An Everyday Therapy Activity for Your Toddler's Social Interest: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-social-interest
- What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child with social engagement?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-social-engagement
- Helping your child practise attention to others at home: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-caregiver-how-can-i-gently-help-a-child-practise-learning-to-attention-to-others-during-everyday-routines
- How can I help my child learn attention to others at home?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-help-my-child-with-learn-to-attention-to-others-at-home