{"h1":"One Everyday Therapy activity for attention to others","faq":[{"a":"Just five focused minutes, a few times a day, woven into play you both enjoy. Short and joyful beats long and effortful — stop while it's still fun.","q":"How long should we play this for?"},{"a":"Many children need time and warm practice. Keep the activity light and rewarding. If your child rarely looks at people or shares interest over several weeks, it's worth a friendly developmental check — not a cause for alarm.","q":"My child doesn't look at me when I call. Should I worry?"},{"a":"It works beautifully for children around 3 to 7 years, and you can simplify or extend it to match your child's interests and attention span.","q":"What age is this activity best for?"}],"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-attention-to-others","title":"What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child with attention to others?","entity":{"key":"attention-to-others","kind":"skill","name":"attention to others","slug":"attention-to-others"},"lenses":[{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Parent / Family","value":"parent"},{"kind":"age","label":"Child","value":"child"},{"kind":"domain","label":"Social","value":"social"},{"kind":"intent","label":"Home Support","value":"home_support"},{"kind":"lifecycle","label":"Act","value":"act"},{"kind":"route","label":"Behaviour-Therapy","value":"behaviour-therapy"},{"kind":"empowerment","label":"Family Empowerment","value":"family_empowerment"},{"kind":"ability","label":"Social Awareness","value":"social-awareness"},{"kind":"assessment","label":"Social Responsiveness Scale, 2nd Ed","value":"srs2"},{"kind":"language","label":"English","value":"en"},{"kind":"sdg","label":"SDG 10: Reduced Inequalities","value":"10"},{"kind":"sdg","label":"SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being","value":"3"},{"kind":"skill","label":"attention to others","value":"attention-to-others"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Caregiver","value":"caregiver"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Teacher / Educator","value":"teacher"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Therapist / Clinician","value":"therapist"}],"parent":{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"},"related":[{"lang":"en","slug":"as-a-caregiver-how-can-i-gently-help-a-child-practise-learning-to-attention-to-others-during-everyday-routines","title":"Helping your child practise attention to others at home"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-eye-contact","title":"One Everyday Therapy Activity to Help Your Child's Eye Contact"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-social-interest","title":"An Everyday Therapy Activity for Your Toddler's Social Interest"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-social-engagement","title":"What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child with social engagement?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-social-interest","title":"Everyday Therapy: building your child's social interest"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-social-interaction","title":"What is one Everyday Therapy activity to help my child's social interaction?"}],"summary":"Try the \"Look what I have!\" game: hold an interesting object near your face, name it warmly, then pause and wait for your child to look at you — and reward that glance instantly with delight. Five joyful minutes a few times a day builds attention to others, the foundation of shared social interest.","answer_md":"*Some of the warmest learning happens when a child turns to look at what someone else is doing — and you can grow that with one simple game.*\n\n## In short\nA lovely everyday activity is **\"Look what I have!\"** — you hold up an interesting object, name it with bright eyes and a sing-song voice, then pause and wait for your child to look at you and the object. This builds *attention to others* (ICF d7), the foundation of shared social interest. Just five focused minutes a few times a day, woven into play, is plenty for a 3–7 year old.\n\n## The everyday activity\nSit at your child's eye level during play. Pick something they like — a toy car, a bubble wand, a snack. Hold it near your face so your child has to look towards *you* to see it. Say warmly, *\"Look what I have!\"* Then **wait** — count silently to five. The pause is the magic; it gives your child space to turn, glance at you, and connect. When they look, reward it instantly with delight: blow the bubble, hand over the toy, smile big. You are teaching that *looking at people pays off* — that faces carry information and fun.\n\nBuild it up gently: take turns (\"Now you show me!\"), point to things across the room together, and name what you both notice. Keep it light and joyful — never a drill.\n\n## The science\nAttention to others is the seedbed of joint attention, language and social learning. Children learn by following another person's gaze and interest; warm, responsive back-and-forth — what researchers call *serve and return* — strengthens exactly these pathways. Pairing the moment a child looks with an immediate, pleasurable response makes that social glance more likely to repeat.\n\n## The Pinnacle way\nEvery child grows this skill at their own pace — a clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care, never from a home activity. Explore more on [attention to others](/attention-to-others) and how gentle [behaviour therapy](/behaviour-therapy) supports social awareness.\n\n## Trusted sources\nAligned with CDC \"Learn the Signs. Act Early.\", the American Academy of Pediatrics' guidance on responsive interaction, and WHO Nurturing Care framework principles on early relational play.\n\n**Next step —** try \"Look what I have!\" today, and message the Pinnacle team on WhatsApp +91 91001 81181 for a friendly developmental check.\n\nThis is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","canonical":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-attention-to-others","editorial":{"reviewed_at":"2026-06-11T20:12:18.613642+00:00","reviewed_by":null,"developed_by":"SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network"},"alternates":[{"href":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-one-everyday-therapy-activity-to-help-my-child-with-attention-to-others","lang":"en","indexable":true}],"dimensions":[{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"}],"meta_title":"Everyday Activity: Attention to 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If your child rarely looks at people, doesn't respond to their name, or shows no shared interest across several weeks, mention it at a developmental check.","authority_links":[{"url":"https://icd.who.int/browse11","code":"d7","label":"ICF d7"},{"url":"https://www.cdc.gov/child-development","label":"CDC – Learn the Signs. Act Early."},{"url":"https://www.healthychildren.org","label":"AAP – HealthyChildren.org"},{"url":"https://nurturing-care.org","label":"WHO Nurturing Care Framework"}],"last_reviewed_at":"2026-06-10T12:20:01.103945+00:00","meta_description":"A simple, joyful home activity to help your 3–7 year old build attention to others — the \"Look what I have!\" game, with the science and a next step.","related_materials":[],"related_techniques":[]}