# What emotional milestones should an 18-to-24-month-old reach? Canonical: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-emotional-milestones-should-a-18-to-24-month-old-reach Publisher: Pinnacle Blooms Network / Bharath Healthcare Laboratories Private Limited By 18–24 months most toddlers show affection and pride, check your face before acting, seek comfort when upset, play near other children, and begin (with help) to manage frustration. Tantrums are normal. These are gentle guideposts, not a checklist — a friendly developmental check helps if your toddler rarely seeks comfort or shows no pretend play by 24 months. *Between 18 and 24 months, your toddler is discovering the wonderful, wobbly world of big feelings — and learning that you are their safe harbour through every one of them.* ## In short Between 18 and 24 months, most toddlers begin to show pride, affection and clear preferences, seek comfort when upset, play near other children, and start (imperfectly!) to manage frustration with your help. Big tantrums are completely normal at this age — they are a sign of growing feelings, not bad behaviour. These are gentle guideposts, not a checklist, and children blossom at their own pace. ## Emotional milestones to enjoy and notice **Connection and affection** - Offers hugs, kisses or cuddles; brings you a toy to share a moment - Looks to your face to "check in" — reading your reaction before trying something new (social referencing) - Shows clear delight when you return, and seeks you for comfort when hurt or tired **Self and feelings** - Shows pride after doing something ("I did it!" with a grin) - Begins to recognise themselves — points at their reflection or photo - Shows a budding sense of independence: "me do it," plenty of "no!", strong likes and dislikes **Managing big emotions** - Has tantrums when frustrated — entirely expected as feelings outpace words - Starts to be soothed by your calm voice, a cuddle or a familiar routine - Plays alongside other children (parallel play) and may show empathy — a worried look when another child cries - Begins simple pretend play (feeding a doll, "talking" on a toy phone) ## A gentle word on tantrums Frustration meltdowns are a healthy part of this stage, not a setback. Emotional regulation is a skill that develops slowly over years, with your warm, predictable responses as the teacher. Naming feelings ("You're cross the tower fell") and staying close builds it beautifully. ## The Pinnacle way If your toddler rarely seeks comfort, makes little eye contact, shows no warm gestures or pretend play by around 24 months, or seems to lose skills they once had, a friendly developmental check is wise — earlier support is always gentler. A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under the care of a qualified clinician — never from a website or a single observation. Explore how we nurture connection through [occupational therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/best-occupational-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) and our [child-development services](/), built on 25 million+ therapy sessions with 4.95 lakh+ families. ## Trusted sources Guided by the CDC's "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestone framework, the American Academy of Pediatrics via HealthyChildren.org, and WHO Nurturing Care guidance on responsive caregiving and early emotional development. **Next step —** if anything feels off, or you'd simply like reassurance, book a free developmental check on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181. This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional. ## Sources - CDC milestones: 2 years: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development - AAP HealthyChildren: toddler development: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/Pages/default.aspx - WHO Nurturing Care Framework: https://nurturing-care.org/ ## Connected topics and perspectives - Ages & Stages: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/ages - Parent: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/parent - Toddler-18-24: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/age/toddler-18-24 - Emotional: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/emotional - Milestone: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/milestone - Screen: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/screen - Behaviour Therapy: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/behaviour-therapy - Early Clarity: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/early_clarity ## Related question paths ### Recognise signs & concerns - Emotional milestones for your 18-to-24-month-old: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-emotional-milestones-should-my-18-to-24-month-old-have-reached - What emotional milestones should a 12-to-18-month-old reach?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-emotional-milestones-should-a-12-to-18-month-old-reach - Is My 18-to-24-Month-Old Developing Normally in Emotion?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-emotional - Emotional milestones for your 12-to-18-month-old: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-emotional-milestones-should-my-12-to-18-month-old-have-reached - Signs of emotional delay in an 18-to-24-month-old: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-signs-of-emotional-delay-in-a-18-to-24-month-old - Is My 18-to-24-Month-Old Developing Normally in Adaptive Skills?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-adaptive - Is My 18–24 Month Old Developing Normally in Thinking?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-cognitive - 18–24 Month Communication Development: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-communication - Motor Development at 18–24 Months: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-motor - Sensory Development at 18–24 Months: Is It Normal?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-sensory - Is My 18-to-24-Month-Old Developing Normally in Social Skills?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-developing-normally-in-social - Is my 18-to-24-month-old on track developmentally?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-on-track-developmentally ### Explore therapy & support - How can I support emotional development in my 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-emotional-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - How can I support adaptive development in my 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-adaptive-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - Supporting cognitive development at 18–24 months: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-cognitive-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - How can I support communication development in my 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-communication-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - How can I support motor development in my 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-motor-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - How can I support sensory development in my 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-sensory-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - How can I support social development in my 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-social-development-in-my-18-to-24-month-old - How much screen time is safe for a 18-to-24-month-old?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-much-screen-time-is-safe-for-a-18-to-24-month-old - 18–24 Month Movement & Walking Milestones: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-moving-and-walking-as-expected-for-their-age - Is my 18-to-24-month-old talking as expected for their age?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-my-18-to-24-month-old-talking-as-expected-for-their-age - Should I get my 18-to-24-month-old assessed for development?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/should-i-get-my-18-to-24-month-old-assessed-for-development - What activities support a 18-to-24-month-old's development?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-activities-support-a-18-to-24-month-old-s-development