# Early Signs of Selective Mutism on a Home Visit

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On a home visit, look for a child who speaks freely with family but consistently cannot speak to you — freezing, whispering or going silent — with the pattern lasting beyond a month and affecting school or friendships. It is anxiety-based, not shyness or hearing loss; refer when the pattern is clear.

*During a home visit, a child who chats freely with parents but falls completely silent the moment you step in isn't being shy or rude — that pattern itself is a clue worth noticing.*

## In short
Selective Mutism (ICD-11 6B06) is when a child speaks comfortably in some settings — usually at home with close family — yet consistently cannot speak in specific other settings, such as with visitors, at the anganwadi or at school. During a home visit, watch for a child who talks normally with parents but freezes, whispers or goes silent with you, with the pattern lasting at least a month (beyond the first month of school). It is an anxiety-based difficulty, not stubbornness or hearing loss.

## Signs to watch on a home visit
**The core pattern**
- Speaks easily and audibly with parents or siblings, but does not speak to you at all
- Goes quiet, looks down, freezes or hides when you ask a direct question
- May whisper to a parent who then answers for them, or point and gesture instead of speaking

**Body and behaviour**
- Stiff posture, frozen facial expression, avoiding eye contact when addressed
- Clinging to a parent, slow to warm up, visibly anxious around an unfamiliar adult
- Confirm from parents that the child *can* and *does* speak normally elsewhere — this rules out a general language delay

**Important checks**
- Ask whether hearing seems normal and whether the child speaks at home — silence everywhere may point to a different concern
- Note if the silence has lasted more than a month and is interfering with school or making friends

## When to refer
A single quiet visit is not enough — shyness with a stranger is normal. Refer when the speaks-here-but-not-there pattern is consistent across more than a month and affects school or social life. Early support works well, so do not adopt "wait and see" once the pattern is clear. Refer in parallel for a hearing check.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — your home-visit observations help start that pathway, they do not label the child. Our [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) and child-anxiety teams support children with [Selective Mutism](/selective-mutism) using gentle, gradual steps that lower pressure to speak.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with WHO ICD-11 (6B06 Selective mutism), the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, and NICE guidance on children's social and emotional wellbeing.

**Next step —** to refer a child you are concerned about, reach the Pinnacle clinical team on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICD-11 — Selective mutism: https://icd.who.int/
- ASHA — Selective Mutism resources: https://www.asha.org/
- NICE — children's social and emotional wellbeing: https://www.nice.org.uk/

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