{"h1":"Activities to develop your child's emotional skills","faq":[{"a":"From babyhood — even infants read your tone and face. From around 18 months to 2 years children begin naming simple feelings, and from 3 onwards they learn to manage them with practice. Every stage benefits from warm, playful support.","q":"At what age can children start learning emotional skills?"},{"a":"Practise calming when your child is already calm — simple breathing like \"smell the flower, blow the candle\", a cosy corner, or counting. In the moment, stay calm yourself, name the feeling, and offer comfort first. Skills learned in calm moments become available in hard ones.","q":"How do I teach my child to calm down during a meltdown?"},{"a":"Yes — big feelings and meltdowns are a normal part of early childhood as a child's emotional control is still developing. Consider a developmental check only if outbursts are very frequent, very intense for their age, or your child struggles to be soothed or recover.","q":"Is it normal for my young child to have big emotional outbursts?"}],"lang":"en","slug":"what-are-good-activities-to-develop-a-child-s-emotional-skills","title":"Activities to develop your child's emotional skills","entity":{"key":"emotional","kind":"domain","name":"Emotional","slug":null},"lenses":[{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Parent","value":"parent"},{"kind":"domain","label":"Emotional","value":"emotional"},{"kind":"intent","label":"Support","value":"support"},{"kind":"lifecycle","label":"Plan","value":"plan"},{"kind":"route","label":"Behaviour-Therapy","value":"behaviour-therapy"},{"kind":"empowerment","label":"Family Empowerment","value":"family_empowerment"}],"parent":{"key":"domains","label":"Developmental Domains"},"related":[{"lang":"en","slug":"what-activities-help-my-child-recognise-and-manage-emotions","title":"What activities help my child recognise and manage emotions?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-work-on-enhance-emotional-with-my-child-at-home","title":"How to Work on Emotional Skills at Home"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-play-activities-boost-my-child-s-emotional-development","title":"What play activities boost my child's emotional development?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"what-everyday-play-helps-a-child-s-emotional-development","title":"What everyday play helps a child's emotional development?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-improve-my-child-s-emotional-skills-at-home","title":"How to Improve Your Child's Emotional Skills at Home"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-i-work-on-improving-emotional-with-my-child-at-home","title":"How to Improve Emotional Skills With Your Child at Home"}],"summary":"Children's emotional skills grow through everyday play, warm conversation and repeated practice — naming feelings, reading stories about emotions, pretend play, turn-taking games, calm-down breathing and adults modelling their own regulation. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","answer_md":"*Big feelings are not a problem to fix — they are a skill to grow, and play is where that growth begins.*\n\n## In short\nThe best way to develop a child's emotional skills is through everyday play, warm conversation and gentle, repeated practice — naming feelings, reading stories about emotions, playing turn-taking and pretend games, and modelling how you yourself calm down. Children learn to recognise, name and manage feelings when a trusted adult helps them put words to what they feel, again and again, in low-pressure moments. These small daily habits build the foundation for empathy, friendships and self-regulation.\n\n## Activities that build emotional skills\n- **Name the feeling, every day** — \"You look frustrated that the tower fell\" — labelling emotions out loud teaches your child the vocabulary of feelings. You can use a simple feelings chart with faces.\n- **Read and pause** — story books are full of emotions. Pause to ask, \"How do you think she feels? What could she do?\" This builds empathy and problem-solving.\n- **Pretend and role-play** — dolls, puppets and small-world play let children rehearse big feelings safely — comforting a teddy who is sad, or acting out sharing a toy.\n- **Calm-down practice together** — teach simple ways to settle: slow \"smell the flower, blow the candle\" breathing, a cosy corner with soft toys, or counting. Practise when calm, not only in a meltdown.\n- **Model your own feelings** — say, \"I'm feeling a bit cross, so I'm going to take a deep breath.\" Children learn regulation by watching you do it.\n- **Turn-taking games** — board games, passing a ball, or \"my turn, your turn\" build patience and tolerance of small frustrations.\n- **Celebrate effort, not just outcome** — \"You waited so patiently!\" notices the emotional skill, encouraging it to grow.\n\nKeep it light and brief — a few playful minutes woven through the day works far better than long lessons.\n\n## When to seek a check\nMost children have wobbly days and big feelings — this is normal. Consider a friendly developmental check if your child very frequently has intense meltdowns far beyond their age, struggles to recover or be soothed, shows little interest in other children, finds it hard to recognise or respond to others' feelings, or if everyday family life feels persistently overwhelming. Early support is gentle and empowering, never a label.\n\n## The Pinnacle way\nAbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional — never from an app or online form. Across [70+ centres](/) and 700+ therapists, we help families turn everyday moments into emotional-skill building, and where more support helps, our [therapy programmes](/behavioural-therapy) are shaped around your child's strengths. Understand how your child's profile is mapped through the clinician-administered [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated).\n\n## Trusted sources\nWHO International Classification of Functioning, Disability and Health (ICF) — emotional functions (b152); American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) guidance on social-emotional development and play.\n\n**Next step —** Want a warm, expert look at your child's emotional development? [Book a developmental check with a Pinnacle clinician](/behavioural-therapy).\n\nThis is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","canonical":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-good-activities-to-develop-a-child-s-emotional-skills","editorial":{"reviewed_at":"2026-06-11T20:12:18.613642+00:00","reviewed_by":null,"developed_by":"SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network"},"alternates":[{"href":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-good-activities-to-develop-a-child-s-emotional-skills","lang":"en","indexable":true}],"dimensions":[{"key":"domains","label":"Developmental Domains"}],"meta_title":"Activities to Build a Child's Emotional Skills","meta_robots":"index, follow, max-image-preview:large","everyday_tip":"Name your child's feeling out loud as it happens — \"You're frustrated that the tower fell\" — and practise \"smell the flower, blow the candle\" breathing together during calm 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