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Signs & concerns
Can you tell if a 2-year-old has Down syndrome?
Down syndrome is caused by an extra chromosome 21 and is almost always identified at or before birth via a blood test — it does not newly appear at age 2. If your toddler shows delays, the right step is a developmental assessment, not watching for Down syndrome.
Read the answer AnswerCan a newborn have global developmental delay?
Global developmental delay applies to children under 5 who are behind in two or more areas — it is measured against milestones that emerge over months, so it cannot apply to a newborn. Focus now on screening, feeding and routine checks, and track milestones as they arrive.
Read the answer AnswerSigns of hearing loss in a 9–12-month-old
By 9–12 months babies turn to their name, babble, and respond to sound. Hearing loss is easy to miss but highly treatable when caught early. If your baby doesn't react to sound, has reduced babble, or ignores her name, arrange a hearing test now.
Read the answer AnswerIntellectual disability signs at 18–24 months
Intellectual disability is diagnosed with standardised assessments reliable only from about age 4–5. In an 18–24-month-old we identify developmental delay instead — and many toddlers with early delays don't go on to intellectual disability, especially with early support. Assess and act, don't label.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing aggression control?
Between 3 and 7, aggression control is still being learned, not a skill children simply have. Hitting, grabbing or big stormy outbursts are common as the brain's impulse brakes are still maturing. Watch the pattern over time: seek a check only if outbursts are very frequent, intense, injure others, or aren't easing as your child grows. With calm, consistent coaching and more words for feelings, most children steadily improve.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing attention to others?
Between 3 and 7, children differ a lot in how readily they attend to others, and a small difference is often normal. But if your child rarely responds to their name, makes little eye contact, doesn't share attention by looking where you point or showing you things, or shows little interest in other children, a gentle developmental check is wise now — not a diagnosis, just early, effective support.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing behaviour patterns?
Between 3 and 7 years children are still building behaviour patterns — managing feelings, routines, sharing and bouncing back — and wide variation is normal. Seek a gentle developmental check if behaviour stays very hard to settle, crowds out play, friendships or learning, or comes with delays in talking or connecting. This is early opportunity, not a diagnosis, and early support works well.
Read the answer AnswerIs My Child's Behavioural Regulation Normal?
Between 3 and 7 years, behavioural regulation is still developing unevenly, so tantrums, big reactions and trouble waiting are typical — especially when a child is tired or overwhelmed. Children rely on a calm adult to co-regulate before they can self-soothe alone. Seek a gentle developmental check if meltdowns are very intense, frequent or long, disrupt friendships and learning, involve self-injury, or travel with delays in talking or social connection. This is reason to observe early, not a diagnosis.
Read the answer AnswerIs It Normal My Child Isn't Showing Change Resistance?
A child aged 3–7 who does not show strong change resistance is usually displaying healthy flexibility — a strength, not a delay. Change resistance is a possible concern we watch for when intense and rigid, not a milestone children are expected to reach. Its absence is reassuring. A calm developmental check helps only if your child becomes extremely distressed by small changes or this travels with other developmental differences.
Read the answer AnswerIs It Normal My Child Isn't Showing Their Characteristics Yet?
Between 3 and 7 years, children develop their personality, play style and emotional skills at very different paces, and wide variation is normal. Seek a gentle developmental check if several areas lag together — talking, playing, connecting or managing feelings — or if a skill once present has faded. This is not a diagnosis; early support works best at this age.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing cohesion?
Between 3 and 7 years, cohesion — the warm sense of belonging and connecting with family — is still developing, and children vary widely in how they show it. Some are naturally independent or slow to warm up. A gentle developmental check is wise only if a child shows little shared joy, rarely seeks comfort, seems distant across all settings, or has these alongside delays in talking or play. This is reassurance and early opportunity, not a diagnosis.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing decision making skills?
Between 3 and 7, decision making is still developing and slow progress is normal — children make simple choices first, with planning and impulse control maturing through childhood. Seek a gentle developmental check only if the difficulty is marked, persistent, shows up at home and preschool, or travels with delays in talking or self-regulation. This is reassurance, not diagnosis — daily small choices are the best practice.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing echolalia?
Echolalia — repeating words or phrases — is one normal path into language, not a milestone every child must show. Not yet showing it is, on its own, fine. What matters more is whether overall communication is growing: understanding, gestures, words and social connection. Seek a developmental check if your child has few or no words, doesn't understand everyday language, rarely connects socially, or has lost skills once had. This guides early support, not a diagnosis.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing emotional awareness?
Between 3 and 7 years, emotional awareness — naming feelings, reading faces, caring when someone is upset — develops gradually and unevenly, so a child slightly behind a peer is usually well within normal. Seek a gentle developmental check when emotional awareness seems absent rather than emerging, or travels alongside differences in talking, eye contact or shared play. This is not a diagnosis — it means early, play-based support can begin while it works best.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing emotional control?
For most children aged 3 to 7, emotional control is still developing, so tantrums, frustration and big tears are normal and grow steadier with age, language and gentle practice. A developmental check is wise only when meltdowns are far more intense, frequent or long-lasting than peers, cause self-injury, or get in the way of friendships, learning and family life. This is reason to look early, not to worry — early support works beautifully at this age.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing emotional expression?
Between 3 and 7, children are still learning to show and name feelings, and there is a wide normal range — many quieter children are simply quieter, not delayed. As long as your child shows feelings in some way (face, voice, body or play) and responds to your warmth, this is usually normal. Seek a gentle developmental check if expression seems consistently flat or absent, or if a skill once present has slipped away — to support, not to diagnose.
Read the answer AnswerIs It Normal That My Child Is Not Yet Showing Emotional Regulation?
Between 3 and 7 years, emotional regulation is still developing, so tantrums, sudden tears and difficulty calming down are completely normal. Children need plenty of adult co-regulation before they can manage feelings alone. Seek a developmental check only if the distress is far more intense or longer than peers, blocks play, learning or friendships, involves frequent self-injury, or comes with differences in talking, play or connection — not as a diagnosis, but because early support works best.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing emotional responsiveness?
Between 3 and 7 years most children show emotional responsiveness — seeking comfort, sharing joy, tuning in to others — but the range of normal is wide and warm-up styles differ. Seek a gentle developmental check if your child rarely seeks or gives comfort, shows little shared joy or eye contact, doesn't respond to others' emotions, or if this comes with delays in talking, play or connecting. This is not a diagnosis — just a wise, early look, because support works best at this age.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing energy regulation?
Between 3 and 7 years, children are naturally energetic, and regulating that energy is a skill that grows gradually over years. A child not yet showing steady energy regulation is usually typical. Seek a developmental check if high energy is constant across every setting, hard to interrupt, causes injury or exhaustion, or interferes with play, learning and friendships — not as a diagnosis, but because early support works best.
Read the answer AnswerIs It Normal My Child Shows No Externalizing Behaviours?
For a 3-to-7-year-old, not showing externalizing behaviours like aggression, defiance or big tantrums is normal and often a healthy sign of good emotional regulation. There is no milestone requiring these behaviours, so their absence is rarely a concern. What clinicians actually watch for is the opposite — a child who is unusually withdrawn, fearful or flat, or who shows little two-way connection. A calm developmental check is wise only if those signs appear, not because a child is settled.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing face recognition?
By 3 to 7 years, almost all children recognise familiar faces easily, lighting up for parents and naming family. If your child does not seem to recognise loved ones or shows little social warmth, a calm developmental check is wise now — not as a diagnosis, but because early observation opens early opportunities. A simple vision check is also a sensible first step, since uncorrected vision can mimic poor face recognition.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing frustration tolerance?
Between 3 and 7, finding frustration hard — melting down over setbacks, waiting or being told no — is usually normal, because frustration tolerance is a slowly developing skill tied to language, attention and emotional growth. Seek a developmental check if meltdowns are intense, long and frequent, do not ease with age, crowd out play and learning, or come with delays in talking, play or connecting with others. This is a reason to observe and support early, not a diagnosis.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child is not yet showing impulse regulation?
Between 3 and 7 years, impulse regulation is still developing — grabbing, interrupting and struggling to wait are usually normal at this age, as "wait, think, then act" is one of the slowest brain skills to mature. Seek a gentle developmental check only when the impulsivity is far greater than peers, happens everywhere, raises safety concerns, or gets in the way of friendships and learning. This is a reason to observe early, not a diagnosis.
Read the answer AnswerIs it normal that my child shows no internalizing behaviours?
It is normal — and usually reassuring — that a 3-to-7-year-old shows no internalizing behaviours such as persistent worry, sadness or withdrawal. These are signals of emotional distress, not milestones a child is meant to reach, so their absence means your child appears emotionally settled. Watch only if lasting low mood, fearfulness or social withdrawal appears over several weeks, which is a reason to ask for a check, not a diagnosis.
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