# How do I support the siblings of a child with Gross Motor Delay?

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Siblings of a child with gross motor delay are supported through honest age-appropriate explanations, protected one-to-one time, light optional ways to help, and openness to feelings like jealousy or guilt. Watch for withdrawal or behaviour changes and seek a friendly counsellor or paediatrician if needed. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

*When one child needs extra support to move and grow, their brothers and sisters quietly carry feelings too — and they thrive when seen, heard and included.*

## In short
Supporting siblings of a child with gross motor delay means giving them honest, age-appropriate explanations, protecting one-to-one time just for them, letting them help in small joyful ways without making them little carers, and watching for quiet feelings like worry, jealousy or guilt. Siblings do best when the family treats the delay as one part of a happy, ordinary home life — not its whole story. With a little intention, brothers and sisters often grow up especially kind, patient and confident.

## Ways to support the siblings
- **Explain in simple, true words.** Tell them their brother or sister's muscles need extra practice to learn to sit, crawl or walk — and that therapy helps. Children imagine far scarier things in silence than the gentle truth.
- **Protect their own time.** Even ten unhurried minutes a day that belongs only to them — a story, a game, a chat — tells a sibling they matter just as much.
- **Let them help, lightly.** Cheering on a milestone, passing a toy during play practice, or clapping at therapy goals builds pride. Keep it fun and optional; never let a child become a substitute carer.
- **Welcome every feeling.** Jealousy, frustration, embarrassment in front of friends, or guilt are all normal. Name them kindly: "It's okay to feel cross when things feel unfair."
- **Keep their world whole.** Their hobbies, friendships and celebrations deserve full attention too, so family life feels balanced.
- **Connect them with others.** Knowing other children have a sibling who learns differently eases that sense of being the only one.

## When to seek a little extra help
If a sibling becomes withdrawn, unusually clingy, angry, or shows changes in sleep, appetite or school, a friendly chat with your paediatrician or a counsellor can help. These are signals a child is carrying more than they can say — and they respond beautifully to a bit of focused support.

## The Pinnacle way
We see the whole family, not just one child. Our therapists coach parents on simple ways to include siblings in [physiotherapy](/physiotherapy) goals and everyday play, so progress becomes a shared family joy. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional — never from an app or online form. Learn how your child's [movement profile](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) is built, and explore more about support at [Pinnacle Blooms Network](/).

## Trusted sources
American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) guidance on supporting siblings of children with developmental needs; CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." family resources; WHO nurturing-care framework on family wellbeing.

**Next step —** Want family-centred support that includes every child? [Book a developmental assessment with a Pinnacle clinician](/physiotherapy).

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- AAP HealthyChildren.org — supporting siblings of children with special needs: https://www.healthychildren.org
- CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. — family resources: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- WHO Nurturing Care Framework — family wellbeing: https://nurturing-care.org

## Connected topics and perspectives
- Conditions: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/conditions
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- Adaptive: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/adaptive
- Support: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/support
- Plan: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/plan
- Special Education: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/special-education
- Family Empowerment: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/family_empowerment

## Related question paths

### Understand the subject
- How Does Gross Motor Delay Affect a Child's Daily Life?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-does-gross-motor-delay-affect-a-child-s-daily-life
- Is Gross Motor Delay Considered a Disability?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/is-gross-motor-delay-considered-a-disability
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- What are common myths about Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-common-myths-about-gross-motor-delay
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- What Causes Gross Motor Delay in Children?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-causes-gross-motor-delay-in-children
- What is Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-gross-motor-delay
- What is Gross Motor Delay, and what does it look like in early childhood?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-gross-motor-delay-and-what-does-it-look-like-in-early-childhood
- What conditions often occur alongside gross motor delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-other-conditions-often-occur-alongside-gross-motor-delay
- Early Intervention Outcomes for Gross Motor Delay Under 7: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-current-research-show-about-early-intervention-outcomes-for-gross-motor-delay-in-children-under-7
- What is Gross Motor Delay, and what are its ICD-11 features in early childhood?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-gross-motor-delay-and-what-are-its-icd-11-features-in-early-childhood
- What is the ICD-11 classification for Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-is-the-icd-11-classification-for-gross-motor-delay

### Recognise signs & concerns
- Can Gross Motor Delay Be Cured?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/can-gross-motor-delay-be-cured
- Can Gross Motor Delay Be Prevented?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/can-gross-motor-delay-be-prevented
- Do boys show gross motor delay differently?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/do-boys-show-gross-motor-delay-differently
- Do girls show gross motor delay differently?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/do-girls-show-gross-motor-delay-differently
- Should I be worried my child might have Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/should-i-be-worried-my-child-might-have-gross-motor-delay
- What are the early signs of Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay
- Early Signs of Gross Motor Delay in a 1-Year-Old Boy: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay-in-a-1-year-old-boy
- Early Signs of Gross Motor Delay in a 1-Year-Old Girl: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay-in-a-1-year-old-girl
- Early Signs of Gross Motor Delay in a 12-to-18-Month-Old: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay-in-a-12-to-18-month-old
- Early Signs of Gross Motor Delay at 18–24 Months: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay-in-a-18-to-24-month-old
- Early Signs of Gross Motor Delay in a 2-Year-Old: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay-in-a-2-year-old
- Early Signs of Gross Motor Delay in a 2-Year-Old Boy: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-early-signs-of-gross-motor-delay-in-a-2-year-old-boy

### Explore causes & influences
- Are Boys More Likely to Have Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/are-boys-more-likely-to-have-gross-motor-delay
- Are girls more likely to have gross motor delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/are-girls-more-likely-to-have-gross-motor-delay
- What causes Gross Motor Delay in young children?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-causes-gross-motor-delay-in-young-children
- Early Intervention for Gross Motor Delay: Advancing UNCRPD and the SDGs: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-does-early-intervention-for-gross-motor-delay-advance-un-child-rights-uncrpd-and-the-sdgs
- Contributing Factors for Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-are-the-known-contributing-factors-for-gross-motor-delay-in-early-childhood
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### Understand assessment
- How AbilityScore tracks progress in Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-does-abilityscore-track-progress-in-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- How Gross Motor Delay Is Assessed in a Young Child: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-is-gross-motor-delay-assessed-in-a-young-child
- How Gross Motor Delay Is Assessed in Children Under 7: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-is-gross-motor-delay-assessed-in-children-under-7
- What an AbilityScore of 0–100 Means for Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-0-100-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What an AbilityScore® of 100–200 means for Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-100-200-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What an AbilityScore of 200–300 means for Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-200-300-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What an AbilityScore of 300–400 means for gross motor delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-300-400-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What an AbilityScore of 400–500 Means for Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-400-500-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What an AbilityScore of 500–600 means for Gross Motor Delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-500-600-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What does an AbilityScore of 600–700 mean for a child with Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-600-700-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What does an AbilityScore of 700–800 mean for a child with Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-700-800-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay
- What an AbilityScore of 800–900 means for gross motor delay: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/what-does-an-abilityscore-of-800-900-mean-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay

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- Does Gross Motor Delay Get Better or Worse as a Child Grows?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/does-gross-motor-delay-get-better-or-worse-as-a-child-grows
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- How common is gross motor delay in children?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-common-is-gross-motor-delay-in-children
- How do I choose the right therapy for a child with Gross Motor Delay?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-do-i-choose-the-right-therapy-for-a-child-with-gross-motor-delay

### At home & in everyday life
- How can I support my child with Gross Motor Delay at home?: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-can-i-support-my-child-with-gross-motor-delay-at-home