# How do I check if my child's social development is on track?

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You can check your child's social development by watching how they connect, share attention and respond to people in everyday life — eye contact, smiling back, responding to their name, pointing to show things and joining simple games — looking at the overall pattern over weeks. If progress feels behind or uneven, a gentle developmental check gives clarity. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

*Social development is built from tiny everyday moments — a shared smile, a pointed finger, a game of peek-a-boo — and watching these unfold tells you so much.*

## In short
You can check your child's social development by noticing how they **connect, share attention, and respond to people** during ordinary daily life — eye contact, smiling back, responding to their name, pointing to show you things, and joining simple games. Social skills grow in a broad, flexible range, so look at the overall pattern over weeks rather than any single moment. If something feels behind or uneven, a gentle developmental check gives you clarity — never panic.

## What to look for, by stage
Social milestones are gradual and overlapping. As a general guide:
- **Around 2–4 months** — calms when comforted, looks at faces, begins to smile back at you.
- **Around 6–9 months** — enjoys peek-a-boo, recognises familiar people, turns towards your voice.
- **Around 9–12 months** — responds to their name, looks where you point, plays simple back-and-forth games, shares attention by looking from an object to you and back.
- **Around 12–18 months** — points to show you something interesting, brings things to share, copies your gestures (waving, clapping).
- **Around 2–3 years** — shows interest in other children, plays alongside them, begins simple pretend play, seeks comfort and shows affection.

What matters most is the **two-way connection** — does your child seek you out, respond to you, and want to share moments? Children develop at their own pace, so a little variation is normal.

## When a check is worth booking
Consider a developmental check if you notice limited eye contact, your child not responding to their name by around 12 months, no pointing or showing by 18 months, little interest in other people, or a loss of social skills your child once had. Trust your instinct — a check brings reassurance far more often than worry, and earlier support is always gentler.

## The Pinnacle way
AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional — never from an app or online checklist. Our clinician-administered [structured assessment](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) builds a clear picture of how your child connects and communicates, and where gentle support can help. Explore how [social and communication skills are nurtured](/) and how [therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) builds shared attention, play and connection step by step.

## Trusted sources
WHO International Classification of Functioning, Disability and Health (ICF) — interpersonal interactions and relationships (d7); American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) developmental milestone guidance; CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early" social and emotional milestones.

**Next step —** Want clarity on how your child connects and plays? [Book a developmental check with a Pinnacle clinician](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate).

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICF · Interpersonal interactions (d7): https://www.who.int/standards/classifications/international-classification-of-functioning-disability-and-health
- CDC · Learn the Signs. Act Early. milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- AAP · HealthyChildren.org developmental milestones: https://www.healthychildren.org

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