{"h1":"How to check if your child's social development is on track","faq":[{"a":"Most children begin pointing to share something interesting — not just to ask for it — around 12 to 18 months. If your child isn't pointing or showing you things by 18 months, it's worth a gentle developmental check for reassurance.","q":"At what age should my child start pointing to show me things?"},{"a":"Yes — young toddlers often play alongside other children (parallel play) before they play together, which is completely typical around 2 years. Genuine shared play develops gradually over the third year. What matters is that your child shows interest in others and connects with you.","q":"Is it normal for my toddler to play alone rather than with other children?"},{"a":"Not at all. Shyness is a temperament, not a delay. A shy child still seeks connection, responds to familiar people and shares attention in their own gentle way. Delay is about whether the two-way connection is developing, not how outgoing a child is.","q":"My child is shy — does that mean their social development is delayed?"}],"lang":"en","slug":"how-do-i-check-if-my-child-s-social-development-is-on-track","title":"How do I check if my child's social development is on track?","entity":{"key":"social","kind":"domain","name":"Social","slug":null},"lenses":[{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Parent","value":"parent"},{"kind":"domain","label":"Social","value":"social"},{"kind":"intent","label":"Support","value":"support"},{"kind":"lifecycle","label":"Plan","value":"plan"},{"kind":"route","label":"Behaviour-Therapy","value":"behaviour-therapy"},{"kind":"empowerment","label":"Early Clarity","value":"early_clarity"}],"parent":{"key":"domains","label":"Developmental Domains"},"related":[{"lang":"en","slug":"how-is-social-development-assessed","title":"How is Social Development assessed?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-do-i-check-if-my-child-s-communication-development-is-on-track","title":"How do I check if my child's communication development is on track?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-is-a-child-s-social-development-assessed","title":"How Is a Child's Social Development Assessed?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-should-i-worry-about-my-child-s-social-development","title":"When should I worry about my child's social development?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"how-can-a-caregiver-encourage-a-child-s-social-development-at-home","title":"How can a caregiver encourage a child's social development at home?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-should-i-be-concerned-about-my-child-s-social-development","title":"When should I be concerned about my child's social development?"}],"summary":"You can check your child's social development by watching how they connect, share attention and respond to people in everyday life — eye contact, smiling back, responding to their name, pointing to show things and joining simple games — looking at the overall pattern over weeks. If progress feels behind or uneven, a gentle developmental check gives clarity. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","answer_md":"*Social development is built from tiny everyday moments — a shared smile, a pointed finger, a game of peek-a-boo — and watching these unfold tells you so much.*\n\n## In short\nYou can check your child's social development by noticing how they **connect, share attention, and respond to people** during ordinary daily life — eye contact, smiling back, responding to their name, pointing to show you things, and joining simple games. Social skills grow in a broad, flexible range, so look at the overall pattern over weeks rather than any single moment. If something feels behind or uneven, a gentle developmental check gives you clarity — never panic.\n\n## What to look for, by stage\nSocial milestones are gradual and overlapping. As a general guide:\n- **Around 2–4 months** — calms when comforted, looks at faces, begins to smile back at you.\n- **Around 6–9 months** — enjoys peek-a-boo, recognises familiar people, turns towards your voice.\n- **Around 9–12 months** — responds to their name, looks where you point, plays simple back-and-forth games, shares attention by looking from an object to you and back.\n- **Around 12–18 months** — points to show you something interesting, brings things to share, copies your gestures (waving, clapping).\n- **Around 2–3 years** — shows interest in other children, plays alongside them, begins simple pretend play, seeks comfort and shows affection.\n\nWhat matters most is the **two-way connection** — does your child seek you out, respond to you, and want to share moments? Children develop at their own pace, so a little variation is normal.\n\n## When a check is worth booking\nConsider a developmental check if you notice limited eye contact, your child not responding to their name by around 12 months, no pointing or showing by 18 months, little interest in other people, or a loss of social skills your child once had. Trust your instinct — a check brings reassurance far more often than worry, and earlier support is always gentler.\n\n## The Pinnacle way\nAbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional — never from an app or online checklist. Our clinician-administered [structured assessment](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) builds a clear picture of how your child connects and communicates, and where gentle support can help. Explore how [social and communication skills are nurtured](/) and how [therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) builds shared attention, play and connection step by step.\n\n## Trusted sources\nWHO International Classification of Functioning, Disability and Health (ICF) — interpersonal interactions and relationships (d7); American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) developmental milestone guidance; CDC \"Learn the Signs. Act Early\" social and emotional milestones.\n\n**Next step —** Want clarity on how your child connects and plays? [Book a developmental check with a Pinnacle clinician](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate).\n\nThis is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","canonical":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-do-i-check-if-my-child-s-social-development-is-on-track","editorial":{"reviewed_at":"2026-06-11T20:12:18.613642+00:00","reviewed_by":null,"developed_by":"SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network"},"alternates":[{"href":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-do-i-check-if-my-child-s-social-development-is-on-track","lang":"en","indexable":true},{"href":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/how-do-i-check-if-my-child-s-social-development-is-on-track-te","lang":"te","indexable":true}],"dimensions":[{"key":"domains","label":"Developmental Domains"}],"meta_title":"Is My Child's Social Development On Track?","meta_robots":"index, follow, 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