# How can I work on Social Norms with my child at home?

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Help your child learn social norms — turn-taking, greetings, sharing, waiting and reading feelings — through everyday play, routines and your own modelling. Keep it short, warm and frequent, name the rules out loud, and praise effort. Little and often, with lots of patient repetition, works best.

*Social norms aren't taught in a lecture — they're learned in a thousand small, warm moments at home, with you as the gentle guide.*

## In short
You can help your child learn social norms — like taking turns, greeting others, sharing, waiting, and reading how someone feels — through everyday play, routines and your own modelling. Children learn these unwritten rules best when an adult shows them, names them, and gives lots of patient practice with praise. Little and often beats long, formal sessions.

## Everyday activities that build social norms
**Model and name it**
- Say the rule out loud as you do it: "I'm waiting for my turn," or "I'll say *good morning* to Daadi."
- Narrate feelings: "You look happy," "He's sad because his tower fell." Naming emotions helps your child read others.

**Turn-taking and waiting**
- Play simple board games, rolling a ball back and forth, or building a tower one block each. Use "my turn… your turn" clearly.
- Practise small waits — "first we wash hands, then we eat" — and praise the wait, not just the result.

**Greetings and politeness**
- Build a daily greeting ritual: wave and say hello to family, neighbours, the security guard. Repetition makes it automatic.
- Model "please," "thank you," and "sorry" in real moments rather than demanding them.

**Sharing and personal space**
- Use pretend play with dolls or toys to rehearse sharing, asking, and saying "can I have a turn?"
- Gently coach about standing a little apart and asking before hugging.

**Stories and role-play**
- Read picture books and pause to ask, "How do you think she feels? What should he do?"
- Act out everyday situations — visiting a friend, joining a game — so the real thing feels familiar.

## A gentle approach that works
Keep it short, playful and frequent. Praise the *effort* ("You waited so nicely!"), keep your own tone calm when reminding, and expect lots of repetition — these skills build over months, not days. Follow your child's lead and meet them where they are; a child who finds eye contact or change hard may need smaller steps and extra patience, and that is completely okay.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — these home activities support, but never replace, that. If you'd like tailored guidance, our [social-skills and behaviour therapy](/behaviour-therapy) teams can shape a plan around your child's strengths, and you can read more about how we build [social norms](/social-norms) step by step. Across 70+ centres in 4 states, our 700+ therapists support families with everyday, play-based strategies.

## Trusted sources
Guidance here reflects child-development principles from the American Academy of Pediatrics (healthychildren.org), the CDC's "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestones, and ASHA resources on social communication.

**Next step —** for a tailored plan that fits your child and your home, book a developmental assessment with Pinnacle Blooms Network on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- AAP HealthyChildren — social and emotional development: https://www.healthychildren.org
- CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early. milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- ASHA — social communication: https://www.asha.org

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