# How can I work on Simple Requests with my child at home?

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Teach simple requests by creating small moments where your child needs to ask — offer a choice, pause and wait, accept any attempt (point, sound, sign or word), and respond instantly so they learn that asking works. Woven through play and meals, a few minutes a day builds powerful early communication.

*Every time your child asks for what they want — a hug, a biscuit, the red ball — they're building one of the most powerful tools in early communication. And your kitchen, your sofa, your bath-time are the best classrooms of all.*

## In short
You teach simple requests by gently creating little moments where your child needs to ask — then making it easy and rewarding for them to do so. Start by offering a clear choice, pause and wait, accept any attempt (a sound, a point, a sign, a word), and respond instantly so they learn that asking works. A few minutes woven through everyday play and meals does more than any formal lesson.

## How to work on it at home
**Set up the moment**
- Keep a favourite toy or snack in sight but just out of reach — so reaching for it isn't enough, and asking becomes worthwhile.
- Offer two clear choices: hold up a banana and a biscuit and ask, "Banana or biscuit?"
- Pause bath-time or a fun game and wait expectantly — that little gap invites your child to request "more".

**Make asking easy and successful**
- Accept any attempt as a real request — a look, a point, a gesture, a sound, a sign or a word all count at first.
- Model the word simply: say "ball" (not "Can you say ball please?"), then hand it over straight away.
- Respond the very moment they try, so the link between asking and getting is crystal clear.

**Build it up gently**
- Once a sound or point works reliably, encourage the next step — a clearer sound, then a word, then two words ("more ball").
- Keep it joyful and short. Several 2–3 minute bursts across the day beat one long session.
- Follow your child's interest — requests for things they truly want are learned fastest.

## When to check in
If your child shows little interest in asking for things by around 18 months, isn't using any gestures or words to request by 2 years, or seems frustrated because they can't make their wants known, a friendly developmental check is worthwhile. This is about support, never alarm — many children simply benefit from a little guided practice.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under the care of a qualified clinician — never from a checklist at home. Our therapists can show you exactly how to build [simple requests](/simple-requests) into your daily routine, and our [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) team turns these small moments into lasting communication. Across 70+ centres, families practise these everyday techniques with expert guidance.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with guidance from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association on early functional communication, the CDC's developmental milestone resources, and the American Academy of Pediatrics' healthychildren.org on supporting early language at home.

**Next step —** message the Pinnacle clinical team on WhatsApp at +91 91001 81181 to book a developmental check and learn home techniques tailored to your child.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- ASHA — early functional communication: https://www.asha.org
- CDC — developmental milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- AAP healthychildren.org — supporting early language: https://www.healthychildren.org

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