# How can I work on Following Verbal with my child at home?

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Following verbal instructions grows best through short, playful, everyday moments. Begin with one-step requests tied to what your child can see, pair words with a gesture, give generous wait-time, and celebrate every attempt before stepping up to two-step instructions.

*When your child turns to look as you ask, "Where's your shoe?" — that small turn is a giant leap in understanding.*

## In short
Following verbal instructions grows from simple, playful moments woven into your everyday routine. Start with one-step requests linked to what your child can already see or touch, pair words with a gesture or point, and celebrate every attempt — not just perfect responses. Little and often, inside play and daily care, builds this skill far better than formal drills.

## Easy ways to practise at home
**Start where your child is**
- Begin with one-step instructions tied to the here-and-now: "Give me the cup," "Push the car," "Clap hands."
- Pair your words with a gesture, pointing or showing — the visual cue helps your child link sound to meaning.
- Use your child's name first, pause, then give the instruction so they have a moment to tune in.

**Build it into the day**
- Bath time: "Splash the water," "Wash your tummy."
- Tidy-up: "Put the block in the box" — a natural two-step once one-step is easy.
- Mealtime and dressing are full of gentle, repeatable requests.

**Make success likely**
- Keep language short and clear; one idea at a time.
- Give plenty of wait-time — count slowly to five in your head before helping.
- Celebrate any attempt warmly, then gently guide if needed, so trying always feels good.
- Grow gradually: from one-step ("Get the ball") to two-step ("Get the ball and give it to Papa").

## When to check in
Most children follow simple instructions with a gesture by around their first birthday, and a one-step instruction without a gesture in the second year. If your child rarely responds to their name, seems not to hear soft sounds, or instructions feel consistently hard across many weeks, it is worth a hearing check and a developmental chat — early support is always easier than waiting.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — never from an app or a checklist at home. Our therapists can show you exactly how to build [following verbal](/following-verbal) skills around your own routines, and our [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) team tailors a plan to your child's stage. Backed by 25 million+ therapy sessions and 4.95 lakh+ families served across 70+ centres.

## Trusted sources
Guidance here reflects child-communication milestones from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA), the CDC's developmental milestone resources, and the AAP's HealthyChildren guidance on understanding and language.

**Next step —** message our team on WhatsApp at +91 91001 81181 to book an assessment and get a home-practice plan made for your child.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- ASHA — Speech and language development: https://www.asha.org/public/speech/development/
- CDC — Developmental milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development
- AAP HealthyChildren — Language and understanding: https://www.healthychildren.org

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