# Working on Following Commands at Home

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Build following commands at home with simple one-step instructions paired with gesture, then fade gestures and add steps as your child succeeds. Weave practice into daily routines and play, keep it short and rewarding, and check in with a clinician if your child rarely responds to familiar instructions.

*Every "can you bring me your shoes?" is a tiny milestone — your child hearing, holding and acting on your words.*

## In short
You can build following commands at home through everyday play and routines — start with simple one-step instructions paired with gesture, then slowly fade the gestures and add steps as your child succeeds. Keep it warm, short and rewarding, and weave it into things you already do, like tidying up, mealtimes and bath time. Most children grow this skill through hundreds of small, joyful repetitions — no special equipment needed.

## How to practise at home
**Start where your child succeeds**
- Begin with **one-step commands** you know they can do — "give me the ball," "sit down," "clap hands."
- Pair your words with a **gesture or point** at first, then gradually fade the gesture so they listen to the words alone.
- Get down to their level, say their name, and keep instructions **short and clear** — one idea at a time.

**Build up gently**
- Once one-step is easy, try **two-step commands**: "pick up the cup and put it on the table."
- Use **routine moments** — "wash your hands, then come for dinner" — so practice happens naturally.
- Play games that hide the work in fun: *Simon Says*, treasure hunts, *Follow the Leader*, helping to cook or sort laundry.

**Make success likely**
- Reduce background noise (TV off) so your words are easy to hear.
- **Wait** a few seconds after asking — give time to process before repeating.
- Celebrate every attempt warmly; if they get stuck, gently show them and try again later. Keep sessions short and end on a win.

## When to check in
If your child rarely responds to simple instructions, seems not to understand familiar words, or this is paired with limited speech, poor eye contact or not responding to their name, it is worth a developmental check. A hearing review is always sensible first. Listening and understanding are foundations of [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate), and early support makes a real difference.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — home practice supports this but never replaces it. Our therapists can show you exactly how to match [following commands](/following-commands) practice to your child's current stage, so home and therapy pull in the same direction.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with guidance from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA) on early language and comprehension, the American Academy of Pediatrics' healthychildren.org developmental milestones, and the CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." resources.

**Next step —** to learn activities matched to your child's stage, book a developmental assessment with the Pinnacle team on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- ASHA: speech and language development: https://www.asha.org/public/speech/development/
- AAP healthychildren.org: developmental milestones: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/Pages/default.aspx
- CDC: Learn the Signs. Act Early.: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development

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