# How to work on an Emotion Regulation Story at home

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An Emotion Regulation Story is a short, repeated picture-tale where a character notices a big feeling, names it, and uses a simple calming step. Read it calmly before meltdowns, use the same words each time, then gently borrow the story line in real moments — praising the trying, not just the calm.

*Big feelings are loud and confusing for little ones — but a simple story can become the gentle map that helps your child find their way through them.*

## In short
An Emotion Regulation Story is a short, picture-led tale where a character notices a big feeling, names it, and uses a simple calming step. Reading it together — calmly, before the storm rather than during it — gives your child words and a plan they can borrow when their own feelings rise. Aim for a few minutes most days; the repetition is what makes it work.

## How to do it at home
**Build a simple story (5 minutes)**
- Pick one feeling at a time — "Teddy felt cross/scared/sad."
- Show the body clue: "His tummy felt tight, his hands went into fists."
- Name a tiny tool: "Teddy took three big bear breaths and felt calmer."
- End warm and safe: "Then Teddy was ready to play again."

**Make it stick**
- Read it at a calm, happy time — not in the middle of a meltdown.
- Use the same words every time so they become automatic.
- Let your child turn pages, choose the character, or add an ending.
- Use simple drawings, photos of your child, or soft toys to act it out.

**Bring it into real life**
- When a big feeling arrives, gently borrow the story line: "Like Teddy — let's do three bear breaths."
- Praise the *trying*, not just the calming: "You noticed you were cross — well done."
- Keep your own voice slow and warm; your calm is the strongest part of the story.

Go at your child's pace. Some days they'll join in, some days they'll just listen — both are progress.

## The Pinnacle way
Pinnacle Blooms Network blends storytelling with play-based emotional-skill building, so your child learns to notice and steady big feelings in everyday moments. Explore the [Emotion Regulation Story](/emotion-regulation-story) approach, see how our [child psychology and behaviour therapy](/behaviour-therapy) team supports families, and learn how the [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) maps your child's strengths. AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Trusted sources
Guided by WHO Nurturing Care guidance on responsive, emotionally supportive caregiving and AAP/HealthyChildren advice on helping young children name and manage feelings through everyday routines and stories.

**Next step —** try one short Emotion Regulation Story tonight, and message our team on WhatsApp (+91 91001 81181) to book a developmental check if you'd like tailored support.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO Nurturing Care Framework — responsive caregiving: https://nurturing-care.org
- AAP HealthyChildren — helping children manage emotions: https://www.healthychildren.org

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