{"h1":"At What Age Should a Child Develop Social Skills?","faq":[{"a":"Around 2 years, toddlers begin to play alongside (rather than with) other children — this is called parallel play. Genuine turn-taking and cooperative play emerge closer to 3 years, usually with adult help at first.","q":"At what age do toddlers start playing with other children?"},{"a":"Yes. At 18 months, children are only beginning to learn sharing and may hold tight to favourite toys. What matters more is that they show you toys, point to share interest, and copy your actions — early signs of healthy social development.","q":"Is it normal for my 18-month-old to not share toys?"},{"a":"Consider a friendly developmental check if by 18 months your child doesn't point to share, by 24 months shows little interest in other children, or if warmth and social engagement they once had seem to fade. Only a clinician can assess this properly.","q":"When should I be concerned about my toddler's social skills?"}],"lang":"en","slug":"at-what-age-should-a-child-social-skills","title":"At What Age Should a Child Develop Social Skills?","entity":{"key":"social-skills","kind":"skill","name":"social skills","slug":"social-skills"},"lenses":[{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Parent / Family","value":"parent"},{"kind":"age","label":"Toddler","value":"toddler"},{"kind":"domain","label":"Social","value":"social"},{"kind":"intent","label":"Milestone","value":"milestone"},{"kind":"lifecycle","label":"Screen","value":"screen"},{"kind":"route","label":"Book-Assessment","value":"book-assessment"},{"kind":"empowerment","label":"Early Clarity","value":"early_clarity"},{"kind":"ability","label":"Social","value":"social"},{"kind":"assessment","label":"Ages & Stages Questionnaires, 3rd ed.","value":"asq3"},{"kind":"language","label":"English","value":"en"},{"kind":"sdg","label":"SDG 3: Good Health and Well-being","value":"3"},{"kind":"skill","label":"social skills","value":"social-skills"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"ASHA / PHC / Frontline","value":"asha_phc"},{"kind":"stakeholder","label":"Therapist / Clinician","value":"therapist"}],"parent":{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"},"related":[{"lang":"en","slug":"at-what-age-should-a-child-social-interaction","title":"At What Age Should a Child Show Social Interaction?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social-skills","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Social Skills?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"at-what-age-should-a-child-social-play","title":"Social Play Milestones for Toddlers (12–36 Months)"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Social Skills?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social-interaction","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Social Interaction?"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-socialization","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Socialization?"}],"summary":"Toddlers build social skills gradually from 12 to 36 months — sharing games and waving by 1 year, showing and copying by 18 months, playing beside other children by 2, and turn-taking with affection by 3. These are guideposts, not tests; a gentle screen reassures or flags early.","answer_md":"*Every wave, every shared giggle, every game of peek-a-boo is your toddler learning the gentle art of being with others.*\n\n## In short\nSocial skills unfold steadily across the toddler years (12–36 months), not all at once. By around 12 months most children enjoy back-and-forth games and wave; by 18 months they show you toys and copy you; by 2 years they play alongside other children; and by 3 years they begin to take turns and show care for a friend. These are gentle guideposts, not a pass-or-fail test.\n\n## What to expect, month by month\n- **By 12 months** — plays games like peek-a-boo, waves bye-bye, looks to you when unsure\n- **By 18 months** — points to show you things, hands you a toy to share, copies your actions and expressions\n- **By 24 months** — notices and watches other children, plays beside them, shows simple pretend play (feeding a doll)\n- **By 36 months** — takes turns with help, shows affection for familiar playmates, joins in simple group games\n\n## The science\nSocial skills (ICF d7 — interpersonal interactions) grow from secure, responsive relationships. Every warm, predictable exchange — a smile answered, a babble echoed — wires the brain for connection. Children develop on their own timelines, so a slight lag in one area, with steady overall progress, is usually no cause for alarm. A simple screen such as the [ASQ-3](/social-skills) helps reassure or flag early.\n\n## The Pinnacle way\nDevelopmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional., under qualified clinician care — never from an online list. If you'd like a baseline, our team can guide you through [occupational therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/best-occupational-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) for play and social readiness, explain [how the AbilityScore® is calculated](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated), and support every step.\n\n## Trusted sources\nAligned with CDC \"Learn the Signs. Act Early.\" milestones, the American Academy of Pediatrics via HealthyChildren, and WHO ICF interpersonal-interaction domains.\n\n**Next step —** if your toddler isn't sharing, pointing or watching other children as expected, book a friendly developmental check on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.\n\nThis is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.","canonical":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/at-what-age-should-a-child-social-skills","editorial":{"reviewed_at":"2026-06-11T20:12:18.613642+00:00","reviewed_by":null,"developed_by":"SETU Consortium · Pinnacle Blooms Network"},"alternates":[{"href":"https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/at-what-age-should-a-child-social-skills","lang":"en","indexable":true}],"dimensions":[{"key":"skills","label":"Skills"}],"meta_title":"Toddler Social Skills: What Age to Expect Them","meta_robots":"index, follow, max-image-preview:large","everyday_tip":"Make play face-to-face: sit at your toddler's level, copy their sounds and actions, then pause and wait — these little 'your turn, my turn' moments are the building blocks of social skill.","published_at":"2026-06-10T14:10:00.215102+00:00","reading_paths":[{"key":"signs","items":[{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social-skills","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Social Skills?","reason":"Linked from this answer"},{"lang":"en","slug":"at-what-age-should-a-child-social-interaction","title":"At What Age Should a Child Show Social Interaction?","reason":"Linked from this answer"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Social Skills?","reason":"Linked from this answer"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-social-interaction","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop Social Interaction?","reason":"Linked from this answer"},{"lang":"en","slug":"when-do-children-usually-socialization","title":"When Do Children Usually Develop 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Gently flag if by 18 months your child doesn't point to share, by 24 months doesn't notice other children, or if previously gained social warmth fades — that warrants a prompt developmental check.","authority_links":[{"url":"https://www.cdc.gov/child-development","label":"CDC: Developmental Milestones"},{"url":"https://www.healthychildren.org","label":"AAP HealthyChildren: Social & Emotional Development"},{"url":"https://icd.who.int","label":"WHO ICF: Interpersonal Interactions (d7)"}],"last_reviewed_at":"2026-06-10T14:10:00.215102+00:00","meta_description":"When do toddlers develop social skills? A warm, age-by-age guide from 12 to 36 months — sharing, pointing, pretend play and turn-taking — plus when to chec","related_materials":[],"related_techniques":[]}