# When should a child develop non-verbal communication?

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Non-verbal communication develops from birth: pointing, waving and following gaze by 9–12 months, gesture-with-eye-contact by 18–24 months, and reading expressions and sharing attention by 3–7 years. These are guides, not deadlines — seek a check if pointing, eye contact or gesture seem limited by 12–24 months, or if skills are lost.

*Long before a single clear word arrives, your child is already 'talking' — with eyes, hands, faces and gestures. That is non-verbal communication, and it is the foundation everything else is built upon.*

## In short
Non-verbal communication develops from birth and is well-established by the toddler years. By around **9–12 months** most children point, wave, reach and follow your gaze; by **18–24 months** they use rich gestures with eye contact; and between **3 and 7 years** they read facial expressions, share attention smoothly and use body language to take turns in play and conversation. These are gentle guides, not a stopwatch — children vary.

## How non-verbal communication grows
- **0–9 months:** smiles back, makes eye contact, turns to your voice, reaches to be picked up.
- **9–15 months:** points to show and to ask, waves bye-bye, shakes head, follows your point.
- **18–24 months:** combines gesture with sounds and looks, brings objects to share interest.
- **3–7 years:** understands facial expressions and tone, uses gestures to support words, joins back-and-forth play and conversation.

Non-verbal skills (ICF d3, Communication) actually lead spoken language — a child who points and shares attention is laying the groundwork for words.

## When to check in
Gentle reasons to seek a developmental check: little eye contact or pointing by 12–15 months, not sharing interest by sharing objects or looks by 18 months, or limited gesture and facial expression by age 2–3. Any loss of skills already gained deserves prompt attention.

## The Pinnacle way
A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre under qualified clinician care — never from an online read. Explore [non-verbal communication](/non-verbal-communication) and how [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) builds these foundations playfully.

## Trusted sources
Aligned with WHO ICF (d3 Communication), CDC developmental milestones, the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA), and the American Academy of Pediatrics.

**Next step —** if you're unsure where your child stands, book a friendly developmental check on WhatsApp: +91 91001 81181.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICF — Communication (d3): https://icd.who.int
- CDC developmental milestones: https://www.cdc.gov
- ASHA — communication development: https://www.asha.org
- AAP HealthyChildren — early communication: https://www.healthychildren.org

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- Communication: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/communication
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- ASHA / PHC / Frontline: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/asha_phc
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