# What to do if a child isn't yet showing social communication Canonical: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/as-a-caregiver-what-should-i-do-if-a-child-in-my-care-is-not-yet-showing-social-communication Publisher: Pinnacle Blooms Network / Bharath Healthcare Laboratories Private Limited If a child in your care isn't yet showing social communication — eye contact, shared smiles, gestures, pointing or back-and-forth — stay calm, build connection through everyday play at the child's eye level, and arrange a gentle developmental check. This is not a diagnosis; it means a clinician's friendly look is wise now, because early support works best at this stage. *Noticing that a child isn't yet reaching out, sharing smiles or pointing things out — and pausing to ask gentle questions — is loving, attentive caregiving.* ## In short Social communication is how a child connects with people — through eye contact, shared smiles, gestures, pointing, taking turns and, in time, words. If a child in your care isn't yet showing this, the kindest first steps are simple: stay calm, build connection through everyday play, and arrange a gentle developmental check so any small questions become early opportunities. This is not a diagnosis — it means a clinician's friendly look is wise now, because support at this stage works beautifully. ## What to watch Social communication grows steadily over the early years. Gentle flags worth noting include: - **Little eye contact** or rarely sharing a smile back with you. - **Not responding to their name** or to a familiar voice. - **Few or no gestures** — not waving, reaching up to be held, or pointing to show you something. - **Limited back-and-forth** — not babbling in "conversation", or not joining shared play. - **Loss of a skill** once had — any step backwards deserves prompt review. At home you can help every day: get down to the child's eye level, follow their interest, name what they look at, pause and wait for a response, and turn routines like feeding and bath time into playful back-and-forth. ## When to act If you've noticed these signs persisting, don't wait — arrange a developmental check now rather than later. What you observe daily is valuable information for a clinician. ## The Pinnacle way A clinical [AbilityScore®](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated) and any diagnosis are formed only at a Pinnacle Blooms Network centre, under qualified clinician care — never from an online list. Our team looks at [social communication](/social-communication) within play and connection, and our [speech therapy](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/top-speech-therapy-center-india-proven-improvement-rate) team can shape warm, practical support around the child's strengths. ## Trusted sources WHO ICF framework for communication (domain d3); CDC "Learn the Signs, Act Early" milestones; ASHA guidance on early social communication. **Next step —** Trust what you've noticed. [Book a developmental assessment](https://www.pinnacleblooms.org/enroll-autism-speech-aba-therapies-india) with a Pinnacle clinician for a calm, clear review. ## Sources - CDC: Learn the Signs, Act Early — developmental milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/child-development - ASHA: social communication development: https://www.asha.org/public/speech/development/social-communication/ - WHO ICF — communication domain (d3): https://icd.who.int/ ## Connected topics and perspectives - Skills: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/skills - Caregiver: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/stakeholder/caregiver - Communication: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/domain/communication - Concern: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/intent/concern - Screen: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/lifecycle/screen - Speech Therapy: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/route/speech-therapy - Early Clarity: https://pinnacleblooms.org/ask/lens/empowerment/early_clarity ## Related question paths ### Recognise signs & concerns - 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