# Are girls more likely to have Separation Anxiety Disorder?

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Separation Anxiety Disorder is reported slightly more often in girls than boys, but it is common in both and the gap is small. What matters far more than a child's sex is whether the anxiety is intense, persistent and disrupting daily life. Developmental measurement supports care planning; diagnosis requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

*Many parents notice their daughter clings harder at drop-off than her brother ever did — and wonder if girls are simply more prone to separation anxiety.*

## In short
The honest answer is: only slightly, and the gap is smaller than most people expect. Across community studies, **Separation Anxiety Disorder (ICD-11 6B05)** is reported a little more often in girls than boys, but it is genuinely common in both — and in young children the difference can be hard to even detect. Far more important than your child's sex is whether the anxiety is *intense, persistent, and getting in the way of everyday life* — sleep, school, play and friendships.

## What the pattern really tells us
Some separation worry is completely normal and healthy in early childhood — it peaks in toddlers and usually softens as a child grows. A modest female predominance shows up in the research, but it is one small thread in a much bigger picture. What actually matters for your child is the *shape* of the anxiety, not the statistic:

- Distress at separation that is **out of proportion** to their age
- Refusing school, sleepovers or being in another room — for weeks, not days
- Repeated worry that something terrible will happen to a parent
- Tummy aches, headaches or nightmares tied to separation
- The worry shrinking their world rather than easing with time

A boy with these signs needs support just as much as a girl — so please don't let "it's more common in girls" reassure you away from a concern about a son, or alarm you about a daughter who is simply finding a new nursery hard.

## When to seek a check
If separation distress is lasting beyond a few weeks, intensifying, or stopping your child from doing the everyday things other children their age manage, a gentle developmental check is the right next step — regardless of whether your child is a girl or a boy.

## The Pinnacle way
AbilityScore® is part of Pinnacle’s developmental assessment. Diagnosis, where needed, requires an appropriately qualified healthcare professional — never from an online list or a single trait. Our clinicians look at the whole child, not a single statistic. Start with [a developmental check](/) , understand [how the AbilityScore is established](/ask/what-is-the-abilityscore-and-how-is-it-calculated), and explore gentle, evidence-based [behavioural and emotional support](/behavioural-therapy).

## Trusted sources
WHO ICD-11 classification of Separation Anxiety Disorder (6B05); American Academy of Pediatrics guidance on childhood anxiety and emotional development (healthychildren.org).

**Next step —** If your child's separation worry is lingering or growing, [book a developmental check with a Pinnacle clinician](/) for clear, reassuring guidance.

This is general information, not a diagnosis — individual assessment and diagnosis require an appropriately qualified healthcare professional.

## Sources
- WHO ICD-11: Separation Anxiety Disorder: https://icd.who.int/
- AAP HealthyChildren: childhood anxiety and emotions: https://healthychildren.org/

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